Go with your gut - "My husband of years was acting strange.." by: Elizabeth
My husband of years was acting strange. Not one person believed me when I said I thought he was having an affair. I could not catch him out.
There was no messages or calls on his phone (deleted) he told me I was paranoid and going crazy. I eventually thought I was.
After about 7 months I said I was leaving him. I said I couldn't prove anything but something wasn't right and I would have either killed myself or gone mad if I stay.
He stood by and watched a very intelligent,articulate women deteriortate and he continued to deny anything even when I was admitted to hospital.
He did not try and stop me leaving nor did he try and save our marriage. I asked him about a female he worked with,his reaction said it all.
I left, him still denying anything happened.I stopped talking to him for months. 7 months after we separated he admitted that he had been sleeping with her.
The part that hurts the most is that a person i thought loved me was prepared to let me go mad to protect this women. She is also married and has 3 children.
To date she hasn't left her husband. My ex and her are still friends and sleep together. I am sad but I am glad that i am away from him.They both deserve each other.
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Its hard to leave if your not sure.."insecurities or if he really is cheating" by: sun
Its hard to know if its your insecurities or if he really is cheating.
I would hate to leave a marriage.
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Might be you. by: Anonymous
It does not always mean he is cheating. Maybe you have issues from your past. Do not accuse him if you want to catch him.
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Leave....."obviously don't trust him anyway " by: Anonymous
Just leave him. You obviously don't trust him anyway so why stay? He is not acting like a faithful husband to you nor is he trying to prove to you that he is one.
It's not worth your money or your stress to catch him. There is a lot to be said about a woman's intuition.
Trust your instincts, leave him, and begin a new life without him!
