i have a much like much different experience than yours , actually it is not an experience yet its a living situation as i found texts on my husband of 6 years , my 2 girls father from and to male friends which clearly indicates that my husband is a gay!! at first i totally collapsed ,screamed and yelled i 4got to say that he was out of the country and gave me his cellular to use it and forgot to erase the texts, i confronted him on the phone and first he denied that he knew these people and he is not the one who sent these messages but then his name was mentiond in some of the messages , he then admitted to send them but he swore that he is not a gay and that he was only being joking and all the other excuses he would say,when he came back i checked his web history and i found alot of gay sites when confronting him again he denied it all too and said that some foreign friends borrowed his laptop for a week and that they might have browsed these sites, we are from a conservative community and such behavior is considered to be a crime and he could be arrested , i came around my senses after a while and i realized that i do not want to get a divorce and don,t want to affect my children by any means , see i'm a very very devoted mother who could sacrifice her whole life for her kids, this was almost 6 months ago , we traveled together and we are leading a normal life, not sexually though as since we got married i never felt that he is really interested in having sex with me and we do it very few times a a month and may be 3 months with not touching each other.. i know for sure that he is hiding lots of things from me now all i want to make sure of IS HE ONLY CURIOUS ABOUT GAY LIFE or he is A GAY???!!!!!
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Need Advice - "your story is much like mine except I have been married to my husband over 20 years" by: Married and Concerned
Wow,your story is much like mine except I have been married to my husband over 20 years and recently he got a new phone and found instant messaging. He searches Ashley Madison and even set up an account (charged it to my cc!) He said that he and his buddies chipped in together. He has been out of town for almost a week and no one has logged on as him. (Yes, I found his profile myself- and we argued over that!)He said that he was searching for people he knew and enjoyed looking at the profiles. Then I found out that he can access it using his cell phone. The cell is in my name but Sprint says that they don't keep track of text messages or instant messaging so I was wondering how I find that information. thanks to anyone who takes time to help me. Sincerely, Wasted 20 years???
