Cheating boyfriend on facebook

by Carly
(Swindon)

I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me by reading his facebook account. He had messages from one girl in particular saying she couldnt wait to get back in bed with him.


I confronted him and told him he did not log out and that was how i saw! he wormed his way around it saying it was a one off. I let him off. A few months later, i started to doubt him.

So i checked his facebook account. He had copied and pasted an email to random girls in the area saying how he hoped they didn't mind but that he thought they were really pretty.

Some girls just said thanks, others said sorry they were married etc but a few have responded. One in particular who has responded to my partner and they have sent a few emails back and forth- my boyfriend has told them he is single, and they are arranging to meet up this weekend and go for a meal or for a drink!!

I am stuck as while i am furious and want to dump him, I am worried of the reaction as I do love him and hacking into his private account is wrong and will make him angry.

Unfortunately I am away this weekend- convenient for him!! so not sure if i should say before and not care what he thinks of me going into his personal account or also should i wait and see if they do actually meet up and read the emails on my return??


Please help really stuck

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Cheating on facebook with old girlfriends
by: Anonymous

Will this help me find out if he's cheating on me ? He deleted all of our pictures together on his facebook and he got upset when I asked him about why ge has a problem with his status , as far as changing his relationship status . He said that was to personal , so he put ask. He recently made friends with a old girlfriend on Facebook. We been dating for 6 months and 2 months ago I moved in with him. I gave up my job and my apartment for him because he said that he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. If I use this site to spy on him , will he see it or will my friends on Facebook see it . I don't want anyone to know. I just want to know the truth , so I'm not wasting my life away. He's been acting odd and he's always on Facebook and he gets emails and texts messages late into the evening. Please help

Its time to leave ?
by: Anonymous

Confront him. You have the proof. How you got it does not matter now. If you felt you had to snoop in the first place on your partner obviously there is no trust. If you did not sort it our the first time you caught him, he just thinks its ok to do it again, because you let him off the first time. Also print the email so you have back up, because he will probably deny it.

Only you can decide what you need to do. In my opinion, he will try to turn it around on you. You just need to be strong enough to make the right decision for yourself.

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