It's tough! Iv'e been going thru it since 2006. Sorry!
Lala Lovewine
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New Love for Broken heart by: Anonymous
I think your broken heart will feel better when you find someone new to love.
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Be Brave and Respect yourself by: Anonymous
You definitely sound like an amazing man, it is obvious that she knows it because she has been with another man, yet she does not want to let you go, and trust me not even if you break up with her and ask her to stop seeing each other. A couple of months ago I met someone who was unbelievably amazing. The only problem is that he lives 600 miles away from me. He told me I was worth the effort. When we talked about starting a relationship he told me he had been married before to her highschool sweetheart. They decided to get married and after 3 years she cheated on him and decided to leave him. He had mentioned a friend a couple of times before, but he never mentioned it was his ex wife. I didn't want to be jealous or tell him to stop talking to her because I trusted him. He eventually saw that I was not feeling comfortable with them being friends because she used to call him and yell at him and be very entitled when they were on the phone. I told him I did not like that and he told me they had stopped talking. One day, my heart was telling me to look for something, like you, I went to his phone bill and I found hundreds of calls from this girl more than four times a day. Sometimes even for 89 minutes. Time that not even him and I would talk. I felt very sad and betrayed, he didn't cheat but he lied to me and even though I forgave him and gave him another chance to see if he can me honest with me, my heart just does not feel the same. I love him very much, but it makes me doubt everything we had. Every word he said, every story he told me. I had sent him a letter explaining why I was mad at him and how I will just give him one more chance, but something tells me to be brave and just let him go. As you said, he decided for both of us, not me. Good luck with your situation and I', pretty sure you will find the girl you deserve when you least expect it. A little tip is this "clean breaks heal faster" so don't make the same mistake my boyfriend did, if you let her go, do it completely and don't hold back. It's just not fair for the next person you will meet, I speak from experience.
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Keep your head up! - "don't let her change your view on love" by: Anonymous
I must disagree, she obviously is not the one for you. Time will make it better and when you do meet the one!
You will realize that it was just a bruise not a break. You will always be who you are ( and you sound amazing) and it will hurt but not forever just until you reslize she is not worth the pain to have treated you the way she did.
We must be careful who we share our heart and bed with because we just don't know who they are also sharing with.
Just whatever you do, don't let her change your view on love too many women treat a good guy bad and change his outlook on relationships!
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Mend a Broken Heart... by: Anonymous
If you have ever broken a bone then you know that you will always have your days when you still feel the effects.
You may also favor the area you broke and you certainly will have memories of the experience.
However...
The broken bone and the incident helped to shape you in some way and it does help to make you, you!
You will forever favor your heart, but just as you got back on the playground or ball field after your broken bone, you CAN do the same for a broken heart.
To answer your question, a broken heart lasts FOREVER, but it is how you CHOOSE to live your life after breaking it!
