i have the same situation though mine just started like beg of this year. i've read flirtatious messages in his fb account , found out i was not the top contact on his YM but this old HS crush of his....when confronted , he was very violent to the point of breaking his laptop ...told me he will leave me take note we have 2 kids and i have been with him for the last 12 years .i was told i was insecure and that i was making assumptions ... i am already so tired of this , whenever i confront him about things ,he brings up divorce . we only have one income and that's his .so you see i was kinda fearful espec with 2 kids in tow. but i've had enough , im walking out . IT'S OVER ..i'm pretty sure i can make it on my own . i am going back to my family and start my life over .
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Leave him by: Anonymous
I am going through a similar situation and in a relationship you need trust.
He clearly has no respect for this relationship if he continues to do things behind your back....