I have a boyfriend out of town because he works and things are not adding up either. He says that he fell as sleep at 930 PM when he does not even fall asleep at that time.
He tells me that a certain bar does not have reception. He tells me that he did not pick up the phone because he does not have reception. At the moment I don't really know what to do since he works 2 hours away. It just not adding up to me.
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20 years and never caught by: Luv working out of town
Secrets that friends know...Not every one who says he/she is a standup guy/girl is telling the truth. Working out of town gave him/her a double life. His/her company was his wife/husband who cooked, cleaned and provided for him/her, while porn, strippers and picking up men/women with a crew was his/her sexual replacement and was very much anticipated. He/her gave the same excuses, the guys/gals do it I don't and never will, I fell asleep, the phone died or no reception every time you called...or I'll call you back and never does...with the excuse "I fell asleep" Don't forget the last night out of town..he/she will never answer because thats the party if up until you have to go back to the hag and kids. If he/she likes that he/she will give every excuse not to change jobs, so its time he/she takes care of the kids and you travel. See what he/she says about that. I bet its "I luv you your the best" or "we can't afford me to move jobs". If he/she is bringing cologne/perfume, best shirts/slingy stuff and getting a haircut/style before leaving...its a given. Also, if your asking questions and he/she gets very loud or confrontational and wants to walk away and doesn't bring it up...thats another given. Even steven, every night he/she is out of town is when you have a babysitter/cleaner and you eat with your friends or by yourself at a restaurant. If he/she says thats too expensive tell him/her you don't come cheap! Or, tell him/her your done taking care of the kids, his/her turn and drop everything...it works. don't get used, best quess you weren't a cleaning guy/lady before you met your guy/gal. How do you feel living your life at the expense of someone else? It's to your benefit if the spouse believes you - lying is easy. Good luck!!
ps. don't forget when you find out he/she will say...I just did it because the guys/gals did and they wanted me too then cry.
pss. he/she, guys/gals - gender neutral I work with both that cheat too.
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all men do by: mimi
when a man had so many opportunity out there. he is more likely to cheat. it's either you know it or you don't. as in your case, yes he is cheating on you. don't believe they said not all men cheats. yes they all do, it's just a matter of time before they screw up.
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Trust your feelings by: Anonymous
In my experience, you should trust your feelings, until you can prove them false.
I waited and waited, and then took action and busted my partner of 7 years. ( I guess that thing about the 7 year itch is true.)
Anyway, there are some things you can do to get clues to confirm your suspicion. And if you don't have real proof, a cheater can just deny your accusation. So get some proof.
First, do your mutual friends act like they're hiding something?
Second, does he accuse YOU of cheating?
Third, do your fights seem scheduled?
I got these from a free report
and used them to confront my guy. He
was speechless, and I kicked him out.
