Don't believe him, I have a male friend who used to put girls that he was sleeping with, their numbers in his cell phone under guys names so that his girlfriend/fiancee/bar trash, wouldn't find out.
He is now married to someone else, and he is still doing the same thing. He told me before he got mad at me for being a female, that this is what all guys do when they are trying to hide the girls they are cheating on thier girlfriends with.
My husband is too dumb to do this, because unlike most wives I am too hard to fool. Please do not believe him, it will only cost you pain. File for divorce and hire a good attorney.
If you have access to the phone account, you should try to call the phone company and see if you can get a copy of the texts.
It may work, if you can convince them that you are trying to keep an eye on your children and who they are texting.
So you have to lie a little, if it eases your curiosity and gives you the proof you need, then it is worth it.
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Been there! Done that! by: Anonymous
My husband was doing the same thing. He was deleting his text history, clearing his cell call history. I had already been monitoring his call history for quite some time. Call it "women's intuition." He was cheating. I cold busted him and he tried to talk his way out of it. We decided to make a try of saving our marriage. We hae been married 10 years and have 3 children. He isn't any better toward me than he was before I caught him. Once a man starts the cheating process, he is always going to be open to the possibility again. Make your plans to get him out and make sure you hire a fantastic attorney. He did the cheating and he should have to pay dearly!!
