I feel the same way. I've been with my husband for 19 years... This is number 3. Number 1 caused us to separate... Number 2 caused us to separate... Number 3?? Well we're still in the process... She's a nut... I thought I was crazy but this woman takes the cake. My husband is her meal ticket and she won't let go. And me? Well I'm afraid all the time and am currently in counseling because of it. Yes, very sad. I love my husband but I'm getting to the point of letting go for my sanity.