I still don't know how to go about finding out from the past. He is not in contact with most of his friends from when he was a police officer.
I have to say that he never accused me because he probably didn't care or figured what am I gonna do with two little kids.
What free report r u talking about? I want that fresh of breath air so badly. Problem is now I took a leave from work to finish nursing school so have no means to support me and my kids. He is paying off my dept thank god but I can't last 2 more years.
He is such a prick and will not leave no matter what. He has an answer for everything. What can I do. I know in my heart if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then ya know it is a duck.
If I can finally find something then it's my way out and maybe he will make it easier. Thanxs for responding. I'd appreciate and other information that could help me in my quest.
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Get proof before you confront him by: Anonymous
15 years is a long time to be unhappy. You deserve happiness, and you aren't going to live forever, so take action now, and get the breath of fresh air you deserve.
In my experience, you should trust your feelings, until you can prove them false.
I waited and waited, and then took action and busted my partner of 7 years. ( I guess that thing about the 7 year itch is true.)
Anyway, there are some things you can do to get clues to confirm your suspicion. And if you don't have real proof, a cheater can just deny your accusation. So get some proof.
First, do your mutual friends act like they're hiding something?
Second, does he accuse YOU of cheating?
Third, do your fights seem scheduled?
I got these from a free report
and used them to confront my guy. He
was speechless, and I kicked him out.
Good luck,
Amy
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get your stuff together by: Anonymous
Get everything in order and get out.. life is too short to be unhappy... wow 17 years and 15 unhappy.. i mean im married i know there will be ups and downs... but wow... try talking to him and tell him how unhappy you are.. what you need him to change, and ask what he might want u to do.. if he is not willing to try then i would go.. i was in one of those .. not for that long but long enough .. i had one son at the time. and i finnally had enough.. like i said life is too short to be unhappy for that long.. cuz you know if your unhappy how do your kids feel??? but i would stick it out and get through school.. and go... but thats just me...
