My suggestion - This is just my opinion by: Anonymous
This is my opinion...If you care about the kids, u just take care of them. forget about her mom, do your job, don't spend the money with her on anything.
Try to pressure her that way, when she feels misery/difficulty she will be sure to find you. Try to ignore her, that the way you can teach her a lesson.
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Karma by: Anonymous
She's got some major bad Karma coming her way, I assure you. My ex-husband and I were awarded shared custody of our children. He was very bitter that I had divorced him, but he was the cheater! He immediately went to work trying to "win over" our small children's affection and loyalty. He told them repeatedly, for years, that I had left him because I was having an affair with the man I married a year and a half after our divorce. After several years he eventually convinced them to move in with him exclusively instead of spending half the week with me.
Here's how Karma came back to bite him: it didn't take long for my kids to realize that he had lied to them, and he admitted it to them when he met his current wife because she wanted my kids to be gone whenever her ex-husband had her kids. They lost so much respect for him for being a liar and for manipulating them. He also tossed them to the side and put all of his time and attention into his new marriage because he had been alone for a long time. He went as far as sending my oldest daughter to live with his mother, because his wife didn't like her (or his mother). He promptly cut off all communication with them and has had no relationship for 5 years with his own, firstborn child or his own mother. He has no friends, both of his kids despise him and his wife, and their marriage is horrible. He will probably never leave her because it's his third marriage and she made sure when they got married to make it so that if he ever left her, she'd financially devastate him. I have a very close relationship with my kids, probably closer than I ever would have had if he wasn't such a horrendous parent. Through it all, I never wished anything bad on him. I didn't need to, obviously, because no one can outrun Karma.
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LEAVE HER !! by: Anonymous
she's no good man.....don't let the beauty keep u from leaving her...there plenty of pretty women out there.... As for the kids, I know its hard to make a descision like that...But in order for u to function like a good father, u need peace in your heart.u don't need this instability, u have a business, therefore u will make it happen for you and your kids... when the other guy gets tired of here and move on to the next women, Then she will feel your pain, but by that time you are already over her....belive me...KARMA IS A BITCH..... u are obviously a great man and father.....she's destroying the family ..NOT YOU....keep your head up man and don't let her bring u dowm...DIVORCE unfortunately is part of live...ure not the first or the last.. all the best to you man. take care.
