This was the exact same situation i was in before my girlfriend of 4 years ended up cheating on me. apparently it was only making out once but i will never be able to look at her the same way. make sure you get the truth and there seems to be no way to change women like this.
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Been There Too..Feel 4 U!! by: Anonymous
Yikes!!!
I'm afraid the writing is on the wall. I'd definately be willing to bet that she has cheated with this guy, no question.
I found the same type of proof when my wife cheated on me.
No one spends that much time texting/phone calls if there isn't something going on.
Sorry to say but you have to be pretty blind and naive if you can believe her story.
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Once a cheater, always a Cheater by: Been There
Don't believe a word she says. The proof is in the messages they send to each other. Even though we will say things in writing (texting) that we would not normally say face to face, the cyber communications is still cheating.
Probably to her it is "not exactly cheating" it is real for the humiliated partner. This type of conduct shows disrespect to you and if you allow it to continue it is a form of self-abuse. Have her end it with him out loud, on the phone, in your presence.
Then, you decided if you can forgive her and attempt to move forward. You did nothing wrong so do not feel guilty if you decide you can't forgive her.
Once a cheater always a cheater has been my experience even though someone was given several second chances.
