MY 12 WAYS OF CATCHING A CHEATER BEFORE CONFRONTING HIM!

by ANGIE
(TAMPA, FL)

MY 12 WAYS OF CATCHING A CHEATER BEFORE CONFRONTING HIM!


1. ALWAYS CHECK THEIR CELL PHONES!! NUMBER ONE GIVEAWAY!SEE IF THEY OFTEN CLEAR THIER CALLS AND TEXTS..WATCH FOR TEXTS ESPECIALLY EARLY MORNINGS BECAUSE THE OTHER WOMEN TEND TO LEAVE TEXTS IN THE LATE PM OR EARLY AM HOURS WHEN THEY ARE FEELING LONELY!! THATS HOW I CAUGHT MY EX!

2. IF THEY WONT LEAVE ANY ARTICLES OF CLOTHING OR PERSONAL BELONGINGS AT YOUR HOUSE,IN FEAR IF THEY GET CAUGHT, IT WILL BE HARDER TO GET BACK! OFFER THEM A DRAWER OR A LITTLE CLOSET SPACE AND SEE WHAT THEY SAY!
MINE WOULD ALWAYS BRING A DUFFLE BAG..AND LEAVE WITH THAT DUFFLE BAG!!

3.CHECK THEIR CAR OR TRUCK SEATS FOR WOMENS HAIR. TAKE A PIECE OF MASKING TAPE AND PAT IT ALONG THE HEAD REST OF THE PASSENGER SEAT AND THE BACK SEATS, ID LIKE TO HEAR THAT EXCUSE FROM THE MAN IF YOU FOUND SOME HAIR OTHER THAN YOURS!

4.JOKE ABOUT IT..LIKE "IS THAT YOUR OTHER GIRLFRIEND TEXTING?"..WATCH THIER EYES OR THIER BODY MOVEMENTS..IF HE LOOKS SUSPISOUS..START WITH THE MASKING TAPE!

5.ARE THEY COMING OVER LATER THAN USUAL IF THEY ARE NOT LIVING WITH YOU? MINE STARTED COMING OVER AT 8:00 PM INSTEAD OF 5:OOPM..UMMMM

6. LESS SEX? AVOIDING YOU? RATHER CATCH A CALL ON THE PHONE WITH A FRIEND THAN GOING TO BED?

7. CHECK HIS MILAGE..IF HE IS ONLY SUPPOSE TO BE GOING TO WORK AND BACK HOME..YOU CAN FIGURE OUT HIS MILAGE..CHECK IT AND SEE IF THE MILAGE IS MORE THAN USUAL! AN OLD TRICK MY MOTHER USED TO DO TO ME WHEN I USED HER CAR AS A TEENAGER!

8. BUY A RECORDER THAT IS VOICE ACTIVATED..THE TAPE ONLY RUNS WHEN THERE ARE VOICES TALKING. PLANT IT UNDER THERE CAR SEATS OF THE VECHICLE..A FRIEND DID THAT TO CATCH HIS EX WIFE CHEATING..AND IT WORKED!!!THATS WHY SHE IS NOW HIS EX! YOU CAN LISTEN TO PHONE CALLS OR MAYBE CATCH HIM AND HER IN THE CAR TOGETHER. CHECK THE TAPES WHEN HE GETS HOME IN THE BATHROOM..

9.DO YOU DO THINGS WITH HIS FRIENDS? OR DOES HE TEND TO ALWAYS SAY HES TEXTING THEM, BUT YOU NEVER GO OUT TO MEET WITH THEM? IS IT REALLY HIS FRIENDS, OR THE OTHER WOMAN? I BELIEVED IT WAS HIS FRIENDS,,BUT IT WAS THE OTHER GIRL..JUST CANT TRUST THEM!!

10. THIS IS A GREAT TRICK MY EX PLAYED ON ME!! HE WOULD CHANGE THE GIRLS NAME TO A GUYS NAME SO WHEN THEY TEXTED..HE FEELS LIKE HES COVERED..BECAUSE WHY WOULD YOU BE SO CONCEREND AT LOOKING AT A TEXT FROM A GUY FRIEND? IF THE TEXT SOUNDS SUSPICIOUS..LOOK UP THAT GUYS NAME UNDER THE PHONE BOOK IN HIS PHONE..AND BE SURE THAT IS HIS NUMBER, NOT A COVER UP!!THEY WILL ALSO TEND TO ADD A NUMBER AFTER THIER NAME, SO THEY KNOW IF ITS THE FRIEND OR THE NUMBER CODE WHICH IS THE OTHER GIRL! IT HAPPENS MORE THAN YOU THINK!! ITS A GOOD ONE!!

11. CHECK HIS CELL PHONE BILLS..THERE IS NO COVERING UP THAT ONE!!IF THERE ARE ALOT TO THE SAME NUMBER..AND IF YOU DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE CALLING THEM, HAVE A FRIEND CALL AND ASK FOR SUZIE..OR YOU CAN DO A REVERSE LOOK. IT WILL GIVE YOU HER ADDRESS ,CITY AND FULL NAME. THATS WHAT I DID. THEN LOOK UP THIER ARREST RECORD, MAKE SURE SHES NOT A SYCO! THEN LOOK HER UP ON MY SPACE, FACE BOOK, TAGGED.ECT. TO BE SURE THERE ARENT ANY PICS OF HIM AND HER ON THE WEBSITES!! YOU COULD BE THE OTHER WOMAN!!

12. LAST,BUT NOT LEAST....ALWAYS HAVE PROOF OF HIS SITUATION BEFORE CONFRONTING HIM!!IF YOU CONFRONT HIM TOO SOON WITH OUT ANY PROOF, HE MAY STEP OUT OF WHAT HES DOING FOR AWHILE IF HE KNOWS YOU ARE ON TO HIM..AND STARTING BACK UP ONCE HE GAINS YOUR TRUST BACK..AND BELIEVE ME..THEY WILL DO ANYHTING TO GAIN THAT TRUST BACK..THEY ARE SLICK AND RUTHLESS..THEY ENJOY THE THRILL OF HAVING 2 WOMAN IN THIER LIVES AND MAKING FOOLS OUT OF BOTH OF YOU, WHILE THIER EGOS SOAR!!!

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