Signs of a Cheating Spouse Forum

Welcome to our Signs of a Cheating Spouse Forum. There are countless signs of cheating husbands and wives that are left behind, that you may pick up on if you are paying attention.

There are the obvious ones such as lipstick on the collar, or a phone number left in his pants after a night out with the guys.

There are also subtle signs such as strange body language when asked a specific question or even the lack of “eye contact” when the questions get tough.

The Signs of Cheating Spouse Forum is here for you to ask the tough questions to others that may have already experienced what you are about to confront.

The idea is that you may get your answer by browsing the comments left by others.  They are here willing to help you through your hard times. 

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Still wondering 
We had just got married in the fall. My wife had got a new job in a big city for a nonprofit company before we got married. She is quite beautiful …

Is it unusual that my wife only showers before she hoes to the gym 
My wife about 9 months ago started going to the gym. She showers the night before she goes to bed and gets dressed up in her work clothes to go to the …

GASLIGHTER - "I trusted him with my life.." 
I have been married to my husband SIKCE 1992. But officially together since we were 19 years old. For almost 14 years my husband worked out of town. …

Suspicious behavior - " We have sex once a month if I'm lucky " 
I have been with my wife for 8 years and married for 1 year. Thing where good and we where trying for a baby. Then one day that all changed when she said …

Things have changed -"She still doesn't like to kiss and there is absolutely no sex" 
Just recently my girlfriend has started acting distant and strange. She doesn't like me looking at her while were doing the sexy and she's all but stopped …

I think my wife has joined the other team - "I can't remember when I last saw her boobs" 
My wife and I have been married for 17 years. About 3 months ago she had found a new best girlfriend. In those past 3 months I have seemed to very low …

Gut Says Cheating What you think - "He started talking about this woman.." 
Husband is self employed and a contractor. He doesn't punch a time clock. He was working on a job not far from home. There were a couple of times I …

BJE 
My wife and I have been married for 23 years. For the past 20 years she has had a male friend who was a coworker. They would go to meetings together, …

What I learned from cheating -"I want somebody who would tell me he misses me and wants to hug me.." 
I am a smart woman. I never lied to myself or had false expectations of what I can expect from a website full of cheaters. Just like me. But I always hoped …

My girlfriend still has the Tinder app on her phone 
Hello, My girlfriend and I have been dating now for about 4 months. Last night when she went to show me a video on FB I quickly glanced the Tinder …

Tried to use my boyfriend's phone but he deleted items before letting me use it... 
Last weekend I had our baby shower and I didn't have my phone with me at the time so I used my boyfriends phone to take most of the pictures that day. …

My wife has been with another man..... 
My family is currently residing here in Bahrain. I work in an office exclusive for all male professionals. My wife works in a hospital as a Secretary …

My husband of 13 years just told me that he cheated on me with a coworker of ours 
My husband of 13 years just told me that he cheated on me with a coworker of ours because my doctor told me I might have an STD and to talk to my husband …

24 year affair - secret lives - "I have no idea who I am or what I want" 
My husband had a 24 year affair with a married co-worker I despised. She stalked him, moved in close proximity to us, commandeered our social life, belittled …

I Keep Dreaming that My Wife is Cheating on Me? Should I Be Concerned? 
I Keep Dreaming that My Wife is Cheating on Me? Should I Be Concerned? For the past two weeks I have been having different dreams, but for the most …

Gut feeling my wife is cheating - she knows I suspect her 
Wife been very hateful towards me so I googled it. I have a gut feeling for sometime now, but she know that I suspect that she is cheating. It said …

Is there any hope for a 52 year old man who cheats? 
Is there any hope for a 52 year old man who cheats? We have been together for 9 months... This time... It was seemingly really good until he lied about …

cheated on after 23 years 
My husband and I have been separated for about 6 months after 23 years together. I was under the impression that we were working towards a reconciliaton. …

Once a cheater always a cheater - "I still don't trust him.." 
My husband failed a lie detector after less than a year of being married. We have now been married for 3 years. I found out 1 1/2 years ago by doing …

Vacation - "She says everything was innocent.." 
My wife and I went away on a vacation with a big group of people along with our kids. The day that we arrived we met another couple who had flown in to …

Husband goes to massage parlor after rejecting it the first time vth wife 
I took him to a salon & he told me it s such a sleazy place that he will never go to such a place . Next i know a week later he schedules a appointment …

Boyfriend received a late night text from a girl 
My boyfriend received a text from a girl late at night and then lied about it. Should I worry? I am very open with him, never lie to him about anything. …

All the signs were there, I still denied it - "How do I tell myself I'm not crazy?" 
Married 26 yrs. So I knew her like I know my own self. She would leave on the weekends. Would not answer cell phone. Same number 100s of times calling …

Why are so many women cheating today? 
Why are so many women cheating today? i am a straight man that was married for almost fifteen years. My wife cheated on me with a bus driver, on one …

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Why Doesn't My Wife Trust Me? I Haven't Done Anything Wrong. Or Have I? 
Why Doesn't My Wife Trust Me? I have been married 5+ Years and when my wife and I first got married I was fresh from the Air Force. Lean at 4% …

My wife is on vacation by her self 
My wife went on vacation with her best friend (girl) for a whole week. but left me all alone with our two kids (4 and 2 years old) I am confused and …

Falls " in love" with a stripper? 
I just discovered my husband of over 30 years has been having an affair with a stripper on and off for 3 years. While traveling, he went to a totally …

I think my husband has seen a masseuse, deletes texts and call history 
I maybe shouldn't have done it but a couple of months ago I looked in my husbands phone and found sexually explicit texts he had sent to a work colleague …

Ofcourse she's lying - "..she started shaving her vagina and wearing lace panties when we were separated" 
Me and my wife where separated for almost 1 year, so when we got back together after another year I found some pics of 2 Christmas office party her with …

I read a text my boyfriend sent to his ex-girlfriend 
recently we were away on vacation and during the night, I could not sleep so I got up and decided to check my cell phone for messages. Well, my boyfriend …

Found naked pics - should i tell his wife 
I've been living with a girl for a year, had many many fights about her texting inappropriate things to other men, and recently discovered that she's been …

Should I tell my friend her husband is having an affair? 
Should I tell my friend her husband is having an affair? I have been best friends with this person for more than 11 years. She has been married for …

Fiance texting a friend 'playful message' 
So I was being nosey and going through my fiancées phone on thanksgiving when she wasn't around. She had texted this guy that she had never mentioned to …

Is my wife cheating on me? 
My wife went out last friday with her girlfriends to a club later on that nite her phone call me i listen to see who she was talking to it was a guy in …

husbands female friend 
My husband has a female friend with who he has been friends with for years. I feel that she is stepping on my boundaries as she will get physically really …

Is Going to a Strip Club Considered Cheating? Please Help! 
Is Going to a Strip Club Considered Cheating? My husband is frequenting strip clubs and it is causing a big problem in our marriage that he doesn’t …

Confused-Am I in denial? 
It is no secret my marriage has been falling apart. I know I am to blame too...It takes two. Since he has been drinking heavily for over two years now …

Question about a friend 
I am a male who is best friends with a female. I've known her for about 20 years. We have became close and tell each other almost everything. She …

I found out in December that my husband had been talking to a old girlfriend 
I was married for 27 years to the love of my life. I found out in December that my husband had been talking to a old girlfriend and they were having an …

I'm young and probably naive, help me? 
Hi, last year I met the man of my dreams. Blue eyes, brown hair, perfect smile, a heart of gold. We spent everyday together for the past year. We aren't …

I Am Part of a Love Triangle 
When I first met my boyfriend he had an ex that he would constantly argue with me over the phone. We were inseparable in the beginning and would have sex …

Is he cheating via text??? 
My husband and I will be married for 1 year this month. We have a very healthy intimate relationship and we laugh and love often. We are currently trying …

Married 16 years heard my husband on the phone 
Last night calling an old o/seas friend. my husband was drunk. is drinking excessively. mid life crisis. He started chatting up his friends 20 year …

Heartbroken - "He is the most convincing liar ever" 
My husband travels two to four days a week. Every evening when i call him he never answers but will call me back and say that his phone battery is about …

If you chatted with me about revenge, please contact me 
Well, somebody contacted my wife's ex-lover's wife on multiple occasions about the affair, but the details were from me and apparently my wife lied to …

I Am on The Verge of Cheating on My Wife  
I Am on The Verge of Cheating on My Wife I have been married 5 years now. I will first start out by saying how much I love my wife. I feel very …

I Caught My Wife Cheating After 11 Years of Marriage – Now What? 
I caught my wife cheating on me after 11 years of marriage. I know over the years the passion in our marriage has not been there, but I would have never …

My husband cheated with a prostitute - "my head is spinning…" 
My husband cheated with a prostitute I have been with my husband for 7 years, and married for5 years. We have two kids together and they mean the …

Is Sexting Considered Cheating? My Mind Is Going Crazy! 
Is sexting considered cheating? I recently found sexting text messages on my girlfriends phone. She left to work one morning and forgot her cell at home. …

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How Do I Stop My Boyfriend From Speaking to His Ex-Girlfriend? 
How do I stop my boyfriend from speaking to his ex-girlfriend? I recently discovered that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend have been talking back and …

Cheating or am I just crazy? - "We use to have sex everyday sometimes two or three times a day.." 
My boyfriend always deletes text messages from his phone. He leaves for work more than an hour before his start time and it only takes him 15 minutes to …

vacation 
hi need to find out if im being paranoid.i always have to force wife to have sex.im thinking she has no desire for me and seems to always push me away.her …

Is he cheating - "...we only have sex maybe 3 times a month" 
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and this year has been different from all the others. We haven't shared a passionate kiss since Dec.31. …

Does this sound fishy to you? Should I be suspicious? 
So, last night I went to turn off my husband's cell phone and found 19 text messages from a woman who is an old college friend of my husband's. She …

Warning Sign of Cheating...or just stupid? - "I realized his scrotum had been shaved! " 
Hubby (of 13 years) and I were in the midst of foreplay when...I realized his scrotum had been shaved! I was like what the...so I put on the brakes …

Could this be a sign of cheating or infidelity? - "Girlfriend is not tight down there" 
Could this be a sign of cheating or infidelity? My girlfriend and I have been spending time apart (extended time). We both agreed that we were still …

Long story -"I really need some help as I have no one to turn to" 
Seven years ago i met a beautiful woman that lives 400 miles from my home. Despite the distance, we began dating. On our first date so told me she …

Piece of a Condom Wrapper Found Bathroom Floor 
Yesterday morning I found a corner of a condom wrapper on the bathroom floor of our apartment. He and I don't use condoms during sex because I'm on the …

Intoxicated Cheating - Is it just an excuse? 
I need advice on "intoxicated cheating". I have been in a serious relationship for 2 years now. It has been a very difficult two years. In the very …

Strippers , Lap dances, Singles websites with chatting - married for 24 years! 
Strip clubs, lap dances, Singles websites with chatting - married for 24 years! My husband and I have been married for 24 years. We have 5 kids …

Why Is Cheating so Addictive? 
Why Is Cheating So Addictive? I hear all the time that if you loved someone you would never cheat on them? I use to believe this. I now know that …

My Girlfriend Seems to be Losing Interest in Me and Our Relationship! 
My Girlfriend seems to be Losing Interest in Me and Our Relationship! I have been together with my girlfriend for the last 3 years. We always use to …

Trying to be faithful 
I have been married to my wife for almost 4 years, dating for almost 9. We have one child about to turn 3 and another child about to come out of the oven …

I Cheated on My Girlfriend – Should I Tell Her? 
I cheated on my girlfriend recently and need some advice. I was traveling on a business trip to a city where my ex-girlfriend lived. I have been together …

Texting and Phone Calls - This new technology of texting and cell phones has really sparked a new problem 
Texting and Phone Calls - "This new technology of texting and cell phones has really sparked a new problem" My husband has an 8:00 Am to 5:30 PM Job …

Yes, I am cheating on you! There I said it! 
I had a feeling that my wife was checking everything that I did so I did the same. I ALSO checked the browsing history and saw that she was coming to this …

Out of town husband 
My husband has a job where he goes out of town mon-fri. for a while i noticed many things about him. He doesnt call me as usual, and when he does its …

Is Looking Cheating? Really? I Need to Hear Your Thoughts On This! 
Is looking cheating? I would really like to hear your thoughts on this. I think it is completely crazy to consider it cheating. I came across the below …

Devoted Husband looing for Advice! 
Devoted Husband Looking for Advice I've been married for 10 years and I work out of town a lot lately leaving my wife alone with free time most of …

Catc him -cheating on me....but I have NO PROOF 
My husband is rich and smart and cheating on me.... but I have NO PROOF. I have not been able to catch him on the computer, or phone, or at her place. …

Confused Help..My husband began sleeping with his sister's husband sister 
Ok here I go! My husband and I have been together for 8 years and have 2 children together. I can't seem to get over the past so here's my story. …

I'm not stupid  
Ok so here's my story my husband and I have been married for 12 years and in the first year of our marrage I met his ex(high school)girlfriend as we were …

Like most men...He has to have a woman 
Like most men...He has to have a woman Rick H from WI is a person I didn't think would have cheat to talk with him and his haha values. But …

Hurt Guy 
My wife cheated on me 3 time's (that I know)with the same guy but now she say's she's faitful,but won't sleep with me what do I do.

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Is my mom cheating?? 
I'm not married. im only 16, but I seriously think my mom is cheating on my dad. My parents have been married for 23 years. Lately my mom has been …

I'm the cheater, and i cant stop,its like an addiction 
I'm the cheater, and i can't stop, it's like an addiction. I am married for several years now to a very nice man and we have a child together. I …

How Long Does a Broken Heart Last?  
How Long Does a Broken Heart Last? I am a college senior who has been in a relationship with the same girl for the last 3 years. I am totally in love …

What Causes Married Women to Cheat? 
So just what causes married women to cheat on their husbands? I have visited many forums today in regards to this topic and it was quite interesting to …

The Other Cell Phone 
I am trying soooo hard not to explode! Because I pay the cell phone bill in my household and am aware that my husband doesn't talk very long at all on …

Mother in Law Cheating 
I found out my mother in law has been cheating on her husband, how do i confront this situation and make it stop, plz help, there's three familys at stake. …

Cheated and need advice... 
I've been with a girl for about 3 months now. Due to her past experiences she claimed she had difficulty showing affection, which I was willing to be …

My Wife Left Me For Her Ex.......Where Do I Go From Here? 
"My Wife Left Me For Her Ex.......Where Do I Go From Here?" My wife recently left me under the pretense of going to visit and stay with her mother …

Have You Ever Cheated on Your Spouse? How Did It Start? 
Have You Ever Cheated on Your Spouse? How Did It Start? I think if we could hear from others that have cheated, then maybe it could help others that …

Cheating Boyfriend ! Why Do Men Cheat on Women? 
My Cheating Boyfriend! Why do men cheat on women that LOVE them, do everything for them, has a kid with them.. I have been with my boyfriend going …

A Wild Party Ending In A Horrible Mistake 
Well i went to a birthday party with a couple of my good friends and the birthday boy, well we can call him "John". He Just turned 25 and I've known …

Wife and Mother worried 
Hubby of 10 years all of a sudden texting ALL of the time. This is a man whom hates phones! Checked text log a month ago. There were like 200 old texts. …

Living With a Cheater and/or Sex Addict Can Destroy You!! 
My ex-husband was a cheater. It seems that he was into the thrill of illicit sex, not the type of affair that requires any emotional effort (as far as …

Is she cheating? I am Broken 
I suspect my gf of cheating with a particular guy. Last night she went to a bar with friends and I stayed home. After a few hours had passed (about …

Too many lies 
I've been married for 17 years. Atleast 15 have been unhappy. My husband has told so many lies and his excuse was " I don't know why I said that it was …

my fault? 
My husband was involved with a girl before we met he told me he was broke it off because she was too old and had a child he said he never talked to her …

CHEATED BEFORE.. WILL HE DO IT NOW THAT WE ARE MARRIED? 
IT ALL STARTED JAN O8 ME AND MY BABY HAVE BEEN DATING FOR A YEAR.. AND I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT IN FEB. 08. SO I THOUGHT EVERYTHING WAS GOING GOOD WE …

Confused over his affair 
I want opinions on whether you think this is an affair or not. Husband has mentored a younger, single female at work for the past 6 years. In the …

Is Flirting Cheating? 
So is flirting cheating ? I came a across I very interesting comment on a forum where a visitor was asked this very same question. That response was: …

Is he cheating while working out of town? 
My husband works out of town during the week, with 4 other guys he is the only married one (the rest just have live in girl friends). They like to go to …

BUNNYFOO 
I FOUND OUT LAST WEEK THAT MY HUSBAND, THE FATHER OF MY 2 BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRLS HAS BEEN HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A NURSE HE WORKS WITH FOR 2 MONTHS! …

CELL PHONES ARE THE KEY TO CATCH A CHEATING MAN!! 
I AM 41 YEARS OLD, A SINGLE MOTHER, AND HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON MY WHOLE LIFE. I FEEL I AM A VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WITH A LOT TO OFFER, BUT IT ALWAYS SEEMS …

Hurt and Confused 
I broke into my husband's email account because I had suspected that something was not right. I found that he had been sending and receiving emails …

Dumbass 
Hello, found this sight as a pissed off ex. I feel lucky on this site. My ex didn't have sex with anyone else but I feel what he did was terrible. …

The honest, faithful one 
I have been with my husband for over 20 years on and off. We have officially been married for four. He has had numerous affairs and I have caught him …

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berry123 
My husband cheated on me and had sex with another girl. But he accepted himself and apologized for it. He also said would never do such a mistake again …

Is she cheating? I need her texting details! 
Ok... Here is a long story and I think the answers are right in front of me! I've been married for 14 years. My wife is 7 years younger than me and …

Why my wife left us for another man?  
Why my wife left us for another man? Hi.. My story below and hope you can advise me.. This's very first time doing this and i've been searching …

My Cheating Husband 
My husband cheated on me 3 mos. into a diagnosis of early stage spinal cancer. My health was going downhill fast, and he had begun withdrawing even more …

Who to believe? 
I found out over four months ago now that my wife was having an affair on me/had an affair on me. She claims she ended seeing him two months prior …

what to do 
I've been with my fiance for a total of 5 years now and have been happily (or so i thought) engaged for 1 year. About 3 weeks ago she made a new friend …

Just Tying to Uderstand.... 
My husband had adult dating profiles for about 6 months that I know of! When I found the first one he deleted it and said he was looking for erotic stories! …

Not sure if my Boyfriend is cheating? I need help! 
Ok well my boyfriends birthday was last week and we decided to go see one of his best friends named michael and he has a sister named Sara. Well when …

Unease 
I have this major gut feeling that my fiance is not being faithful to me. He works on a Cruise ship and is usually away for 8months a year. For the …

Wifes "FRIEND" and her text provacative messages..... 
My wife of 3 years has a "friend" that she used to do everything with before we were married. She told me there was never any "attraction" from her to …

I am the Cheater 
I am the Cheater I met my boyfriend when I was 18(he was 28) and had our baby at 19.I could not have been more happy with my life,everything was going …

How do you stop the cheating from happening 
I am a wife of a cop in a small town. I never thought of my husband cheating until a friend of mine was going through a rough time because her husband …

Cant_Win 
My wife and I have been married for 14 years. 6 months ago, she told me she was unhappy with the way things were going. She had started a new job 4 …

Concerned..how to I get his hotmail account password 
I think my husband of 3 years may be having an affair, especially since I cannot read his email. I seek advice on how to get his facebook or hotmail account …

confused Kay 
Okay I have been with this man for 10 yrs now we have 3 boys together.I In the summer I signed the two oldest boys up for soccer,one day after soccer …

I think he is cheating but i dont know... 
Well it all started when me and my boyfriend got together about a month ago...and well he had only just broken up with his ex after a 8 months relationship. …

Did my wife visit her ex-boyfriend?  
Please read the following true story and kindly give your opinion at the end. I’m a British man working and living in the Middle East with my family. …

Is he cheating 
Hi all, I am going to make this short because I can go on and on forever and I don't want to bore you all. DH and I have been married 13 years we have …

Boyfriend possibly cheating but unsure 
Well lets see here. My bf and I have been dating for almost a year now. we've known each other for 14 years. I have 2 children from another relationship …

Hes cheating with a co-worker traffic cop(51 Division) 
I found his cell phone bill and he was talking to a female cop from works every single day for a minimum of 60 minutes. He swears they are just friends …

nervous 
My boyfriend has told me several times just how against cheating he is. Today, I picked up his cell phone to check the time and noticed he had a text message. …

NEEDING SUPPORT 
My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs, and we have two boys. One day I had his cell phone and a woman called. She seemed very surprised that …

Considering Suicide 
He is a stand up comedian and I am a personal trainer. our schedules are heavy and I was working as much as possible because my son's father ( my son was …

feelikesucker 
Well, it started with her being distant,unaffectionate, argumentative. Our sex life fell off the face of the earth. We went from oral sex and intercourse …

I Fear That He May Be Cheating 
Well, how do I begin? I guess the different attitude started about 3 months ago. I just put it off to new job and new stress. But then I began to see …

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How Can I Find Out Who’s Calling My Husband? 
How Can I Find Out Who’s Calling My Husband? I am in a stage in which I don’t trust my husband. I caught him cheating a little over a year ago and …

Tell tales signs 
One important thing to remember is that anytime a spouse begins acting differently then you better look into it. Often it is subtle changes like wanting …

Is Kissing Cheating? 
So is kissing cheating? On a night out on the town with her girls, your woman kisses a total stranger after a few too much to drink. Is that acceptable …

Is he cheating? 
Is He Cheating? The signs: odd text messages like "sweet dreams", but more, sudden lack of sex, or interest in sex, from someone who usually wants to …

my husband cheated 
My husband cheated in the past. It seems like I am always cautious watching. Let me explain he has done it to the point of almost ruining his career. …

Not my wife....right? 
A little back story: We've been married over 22 years and lived together more than two years before that. In total we've been together 25 years. When …

Did my digging and found out he was cheating 
Ok. When I met my boyfriend I learned he lied about being divorced and having one kid with his x wife. He didn't see his kid and I got him to start seeing …

cheating? 
I am curious if my husband is cheating because I was looking through his phone and seen where he deleted all his text messages. And he is a little …

Looking for advice... 
I have been married for 4 years now. I've been having this terrible feeling for some time now that my husband is having an affair. I don't have any real …

Checked His Facebook - It turns out that it was from a girl and she was clearly flirting with him. 
I am actually writing to you, because I don't really get the whole forum deal. I would rather just ask a question and get an email response. If you would …

Is a Hand Job Considered Cheating? 
Is a hand job considered cheating? My boyfriend and I have been together for more than two years now. We both spoke about our commitment to each other …

My Cheating Wife 
My wife, ( * *****, a.k.a "G"), cheated on me before and after our wedding in September 2008 with a guy she met at poker in Queanbeyan, M S (a.k.a. …

Is she cheating? 
Hello My wife and I have been married for 10 years and I thought everything was very good between us. Ok we sometimes had disagreements over tidying …

Found Facebook Message in Hubby's In Box 
My husband has many female Facebook friends that he went to elementary school or high school with and I thought nothing of this until about 3 months ago. …

Confused - "Could he fall out of love with me so fast?" 
I was dating this guy for 8 months. It was kinda long distance but we were able to see each other 2-3 times a week. We would constantly text each other …

Unforgiving - "I still like intimacy with him but cant say i love him" 
After a lot of years i found out my husband was having an affair with an old girlfriend from the past. For 5 months they have been texting and she …

What to believe? 
I work out of town 3-4 days a week and my wife started a new job almost a year ago. She was trained by one of her managers and they became friends. …

Caught cheating..... twice..."she said she had performed oral sex on him in his car during a break." 
My wife cheated on me early in our marriage. I was able to forgive her for that indiscretion because I was not a very good husband and our relationship …

Tell me what would you think is going on..? 
I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now. When we got together, we were together every minute that he wasn't working and we communicated well, It …

Cheating boyfriend on facebook 
I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me by reading his facebook account. He had messages from one girl in particular saying she couldnt wait to get …

My Husband has feeling for my best friend, I need help with this 
Around Thanksgiving my husband of 20 some years came home really late and when I asked him where he had been because he had never done that before. He …

My wife secretly masturbates - Please help 
My wife secretly masturbates her self from ten days onwards i am asking about the reason why she masturbates secretly while i sleep. She doesn't tell …

My husband stopped wearing his wedding ring. then he moved out for 3 months,came back,then moved out again! 
My husband stopped wearing his wedding ring{supposedly because of his religion}and then moved out cause he and my dad weren't getting along. 3 months …

Curious woman 
I have been married for 7 months. After our 6 months of conflict-free marraige my husband thanked me for a peaceful six months together. About a week …

Take It From Women Who Has Cheated..We Know! 
Great site, we were just reading through signs she's cheating and as women who have cheated, we wanted to add that maybe too much emphasis is placed on …

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He tells me what he thinks I want to hear 
Okay so my partner and I have been together for almost five years off and on....his mom tries to break us up, but he plays all sweet to your face. I didn't …

I think my partner of 2 years is cheating, but cant find any solid evidence.... 
About september last year after i had come home from hospital (after loosing our baby) i found heaps of text messages on his mobile phone to and from dating …

What if you want to cheat 
I cheated a long time ago and many, but now I am faithful. those feelings are coming back, if only for a moment to escape for 15 mins and come back renewed. …

Neighbor and wife 
So i am a hard working male in my late twenties and my wife is the same age. I work out of town for a week at a time. We talk on the phone just about …

Wife took things too far, I'm forever scarred. 
We had been married for 10 years and we had 3 children. we met in high school, and got married at a very simple wedding at a JP with just our families. …

I feel she is cheating.... 
Wife witholds sex: ignores me Accuses me of only wanting sex.and out of the blue shave her twat when we do have she. Its nothing like before she refuses …

My husband is working on a cruise ship 
My husband is working for almost 10 months away from home but he never failed to call me atleast 3 times a day or whenever he was on break so i never …

Cheating wife?I Found Provocative Panties In Her Drawer 
While putting away the laundry (which I do occasionally), I discovered see-through lace panties and other erotic lingerie in my wife's drawer. In the …

I think my husband is having an affair. I don't recognize my husband anymore. 
I Feel That My Husband is Seeing Someone Else I met my husband 7 years ago, 5 years of which we are married. We fell in love instantly. We have had …

I found the evidence of him cheating. Why am I not mad? 
I've been married for 15 years. He has cheated before, and I have been feeling like he was again. But then I found the evidence on his phone. I haven't …

I think my husband is having an affair. I accidentally seen a message on his Facebook that HE asked to meet with a woman during a trip. 
Background: I had dropped my phone and the screen cracked. I used one of our old phones until I could get mine repaired. When I went to Facebook (on …

Husband requesting different women on Facebook - Is He Looking to cheat? 
My husband constantly likes random pictures of sexy women and is asking different women to be friends on FB my question is.. Is he getting ready To cheat …

Husband Cheated With Shemale - I'm disgusted 
Husband Cheated With Shemale - I'm disgusted Its bugs me alots after his confession of him had sex and paid for a shemale for his risk and consequences …

All my efforts in Vain - I'm tired of how my husband treats me 
My husband does have a password on everything, his laptop, 3 cellphones, and ipad. He never invites me to office gathering,outings, Christmas party …

My shaves her P**** now since we have been on a break 
My wife nevered shaved her p****y and now since we are on a break she shaves it and she is wet in her underwear when she changes clothes. Now she wants …

Cheated on after 23 years of marriage - And I Still Want it To Work 
My husband has been having an affair with a co worker for more than a year now and he even had her living in one of our rentals that had belonged to my …

How could i be so blind? 
My wife had a affair that lasted at least 10 months with co worker I finally caught on when I got the phone bill and saw a number being called many many …

Learning from the past 
I was married sixteen years to a man who was not faithful for even one of those years. I finally got the courage to leave when I saw the effects of his …

Fear of a more shattered world - he is trying to hide behind his Christianity 
Nothing hurts more then loosing a child, of which we lost. One of our twin boy's passed away 19 yrs.ago when they were 4mos. old. Having to …

is this Signs of Cheating Spouse 
i have a feeling that he cheats because he always carry his cellphone wherever he goes ...even in a pee he always locked his cell phone inside the car..then …

16 years later..And I'm Still Dealing With Her Infidelity 
OK, here goes. I met my wife whe she was 14 and I was 17. We dated for a couple of years before we got married and have been married for 23 years now. …

He's texting another woman at odd hours 
My husband works with a girl who 's son was killed. She had to work with my husband as he mentored her. She has been disrespectful to me since so he …

Mother in fear of daughter's husband 
He cheated on her before they were married for months with her best friend. And she won't speak to her and he's not to blame by anyone. After the wedding …

Is My Man Cheating? - He Uses My Insecurities Against Me 
I dont know why but so many things confuse me. I have slight insecurities but for some reason I feel my gut says yes . My boyfried , I feel he uses my …

You are not the father... 
I remember it like it was yesterday. I had met a girl through mutual friends, we instantly attracted. We began seeing each other every spare moment …

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cheating or not 
My partner and I have been together 5 years and she was sex hungry now she didn't want to know she also has ice very bad and also in the begining of our …

Betrayed 
Hello, my name is Jeff Im a 37 yr old male. Been in a relationship with partner for 11yrs.(defacto/unmarried). We have a 5yr old daughter. A couple …

wife texting 50 times a day just friends she claims 
This joint male friend (I thought)of my wife and I have been texting each other 40 times a day for months.How can I read her deleted text messages ??

My sis inlaw n my husband. She claims she's clean.  
I'm such silly or should I say stupid. Trusting everyone around me. I'm full time student m my partner a business man. Stays home while his employees work …

My soon to be ex cheating or not? 
Well to start off we were married at a young age both of us were virgins. Within the first year of marriage I had a one night stand with a woman I met …

I absolutely want to get him back!!! 
I found out about 4 weeks ago that my husband has been cheating on me and have doing alot of self exploration and alot of soul searching to suss out the …

He's doing things differently after 12 years together 
He's wearing boxers instead of briefs. He shaved his entire back for the first time (he is a very good looking man). He can't keep it up - never had …

Why don't i feel anything? - "Does it mean anything that she didn't wait to get caught and told me to my face?" 
My wife cheated on me with a guy I considered to be my friend. What worries me is that I don't even know what i feel. The fact that i've been betrayed …

My husband is cheating on me with his ex girlfriend 
I've been married now for four years, we have a child of two and half year. I discovered a letter through his mails that he wrote to his brother telling …

I just Dont Know - "My partner of 3 years has heaps of accounts to singles hook up sites" 
My partner of 3 years has heaps of accounts to singles hook up sites, we use to look at one together but now hes got heaps with his own name and details …

An Unknown Second Car  
I have strong evidence my husband has a second car. How can I find out for sure?

I believe my husband is seeing a chic at work - Should I suspect that my husband is lying? 
My husband was working at a job for sometime and then got offered a better job. He worked the new job for one day and quit to go back to his old job. …

I know he's cheating how do I approach him - Is he worth it? 
Ok stupid I know but I've been dating this guy for a while he has a reputation for being a man-whore. Lately i've noticed his behavior has changed …

Mrs. Heartache - "I don't want the insecurities this relationship gives me." 
I don't want the insecurities this relationship gives me Hi, I have been married for almost 4 years. At the beginning of the relationship we both …

think my husbands lying through his teeth!! - "He stores a woman's number under a man's contact" 
"He stores a woman's number under a man's contact in his phone" Hi i don't no where to start i really need some help,it started in 2008 while we was …

Is My Husband Cheating? -"the only time she comes up to our house im always working..." 
I've been having a feeling that my husband has been cheating on me with some one he works with My husband & i have been together for 5 years but only …

Help - "boyfriend of five years has cheated two times and swears it won't happen ever again" 
My boyfriend of five years has cheated two times and swears it won't happen ever again I was the one who caught him Should I believe him?

Trust your gut no matter how much you think you can trust someone 
Why Would Someone Say They Love You, Yet Cheat on You? I broke up with my ex about 10 months ago. We had a rocky relationship, but i would have never …

Should i be worried if my husband searchs for his ex on facebook? 
Should i be worried if my husband searchs for his ex on facebook? I accidentally caught my husband checking out a profile with an unfamiliar name …

I Love My Wife and I Don't Want to Lose Her - My Marriage Is Slipping Away 
My Marriage Is Slipping Away My wife and I went through a terrible couple months. We have been together 5 years married for 3. We both went through …

17 years of secret love. I'm sorry if you don't understand 
17 Years of Secret Love I ask you... Am I really that bad of a guy? Seventeen years. We were seventeen when we first kissed in high school. …

Is my husband cheating? 
I got this felling that my husband is cheating. He works swing shifts and he has been working late this week. So he don't come in till 3 in the morning …

Boyfriend cheating? 
I have been with this guy two years. Right before we moved in together , he did live with another chick. He has been telling me for 2 years that he was …

My husband signed up for 2 online dating sites 
K so I'm always playing with my husbands phone. So one morning he tells me that he was playing around on the Internet on his iPhone ( I know he looks …

I was a fool from the beginning. Not anymore! 
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. For good. He was very sweet and seemed caring at first, but over time he would accuse me of cheating. …

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Numerouos text messages, Is he cheating ?? 
I am noticing frequent text messages on my husband's cell phone, some time 50 over an hour and at all hours of the night and early morning. I tried reverse …

I GAVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE - "i maintain that everyone deserves a 2nd chance and i am willing to give it to him" 
My boyfriend and myself have been together for just over 6 years.. after 4 years of being together we never kissed (passionately) or did anything for that …

Uneasy about pictures of he and ex wedding pix still displayed after 17 years (we 2 married couple) 
I went with my boyfriend 5 years before we married. We stayed married 2 years and I divorced him. We had a short separation and hooked up again and …

My boyfriend's has custody of his children and his ex comes to visit! 
I have a problem with her access to the home. She does not have a key and she knows he's involved with me, however when I'm not there, she'll come visit …

Who do I believe? 
I left for a week to go to a wedding, my husband said he couldn't get the time off. He told me on Saturday he was going bowling and to the bar with his …

Should I be worried? - "I feel my wife may be vulnerable at this time with our lack of intimacy" 
My wife and I haven't been intimate in 3 months, this has never happened in our 23 year marriage. We have children and both work. I feel I can account …

Angry Wife 34 - "I was blindsided while I sat idling on a Tuesday afternoon..." 
My husband is a total bum, we will have our four year anniversary in about six months. I have supported our family the entire four years, except for the …

Has he or is he cheating? - "He said he had not given up & that we are not finished" 
Where to start... He left in November last year said we was on a break as I worked so many hours. I've since found out he has been texting another female …

Irene - "I feel like killing him and moving on." 
My husband doesn't want...actually has never taken us out even for a day for the 5 years of marriage. But he wakes up,dresses and off to be with friends …

Many Doubts - "I am almost sure he's hiding something! " 
We have been married 16 years, and our sex life has never been great! We did have sex the very first years of our marriage. However, he somehow never …

My view of our experience - Please help! 
I have been with my husband for almost 8 years but have only been married 1 1/2 dated all throughout high school college and some university. When …

CHEATING SPOUSE 
I HAVE FOUND VULGAR MESSAGES SENT BY A LADY TO HIM FOR THE PAST THREE MONTHS WHEN I OPENED THE INBOX OF MY HUSBANDS MOBILE. I KNOW THAT MESSAGES HAVE …

Is my bf cheating or mad at me? 
Well I met this guy on the internet and he lives two hours away. Qt first I wasn't really talking to him but I took a chance and he asked me out and …

Emailing his ex is cheating or not? 
We do everything together and I was happy I thought. It started back in July when I noticed that he was always too tried or busy working to return my …

My Cheating wife - "My friend facilitated by calling my wife.." 
The issue comes barely a year ago when i was involved in an accident. My friend facilitated by calling my wife and other buddies. Since then he wants …

Sucker or Not - "admitted that that "making out" included feeling her breasts and rubbing her.." 
Wife of 14 years and 21 years of a relationship cheated with a coworker. After I figured it out from looking at phone records and text messages she …

Husband calling x-wife to chat. - "My husband of 2 yrs. is constantly calling his x-wife about nothing" 
My husband of 2 yrs. is constantly calling his x-wife about nothing. They have 2 adult children so there really isn't anything to handle with the kids. …

Unsure - "Lately, I had a suspicion that he cheated on me with my brother's wife" 
I'm 39 and have been married to my husband for 10 years now. My husband is a quiet and reserved type. Lately, I had a suspicion that he cheated on …

Text messages 
My husband received 57 text messages in a few hour from a number i don't know. What should I think?

A male co - worker texted my husband with a comment he loves him ? Confused 
My husband has a person he works with another man, he had texted him a few times playing around making comments etc. , Then on super bowl Sunday he had …

My girlfriend all off a sudden wants me to wear a condom?? is she cheating on me? 
Im in a serious relationship, where my girlfriend and I are engaged. We been making love without a condom for soooooooo long and now all of a sudden she …

How would you feel? Should I be worried? 
My just turned 55 year old husband of 20 years went on a week long trip to Florida to visit a friend who had moved there about a year ago. I read his …

Wife cheated? How can I ask my wife if she had sex? 
My wife and her sister and husband went out one evening. My self and brother in law got drunk and I was dropped off at home. The women went to a bar …

Pregnant girlfriend caught cheating - "I caught them kissing..." 
I have been with my fiancee for 5 years,she is 12 weeks pregnant (which she plans to terminate) and in the last few months a "new friend" appears on the …

Just overworried or do I have a reason to be suspicious? 
Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We live 2,5 hours away from each other so I only see him once a week this doesn't …

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Am i over reacting? - "When we first started I had one girl call me out of the blue..." 
I been been married to my husband 7 months and I've been with him almost 3 years. When we first started I had one girl call me out of the blue saying that …

Just found out he cheated while we were engaged, now married 14 years, should I confront him? 
We've been married 14 years and have 3 kids. Recently went to a psychic for answers to various questions. I've always suspected that he may have cheated …

Is Getting a Massage With a Happy Ending Considered Cheating? 
Is Getting a Massage With a Happy Ending Considered Cheating? I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now. We were really good friends before we …

What do I do? - " I don't want to destroy my brothers heart as well.." 
Well, my brothers wife doesn't love my brother anymore, and she wants to go back to her old days of having fun, I explained to both of them that whatever …

Caught my bf txting other women 
Last week my bf left his phone. I decided to check it because he has been distant n more attentive to his phone then me or our new born bby. Weeks before …

Nursing hours - She hardly ever wants sex anymore.  
My wife of around a year and a half started nursing recently. She had a history of infidelity in her first marriage. Well long story short. She hardly …

The girlfriend of married man 
I started dating a guy under the info he was in divorce steps. After 6 months, he hadn't moved from home they owned together. I ask questions & he says …

Private message from a friend on Facebook asking me to tell my fiance to stop texting her. 
Hi, I've been with my fiance for 9 years and we are getting married in 6 months. We haven't been getting on recently, or had sex in over a month which …

Mr 
Hi, I work overseas and have been married for 16 years. Just recently over the past year my wife has been going on trips away with her sister who is single. …

Taking her pill - "beware.....take your pill tonight". 
My partner went out the other night with her work mates. When she got home she went to up to bed, and as I was still awake downstairs she asked me to take …

HELP - I have a question. Recently a new girl to our town added EVERYONE on facebook, especially... 
I have a question. Recently a new girl to our town added EVERYONE on facebook, especially my boyfriend. I told him she wanted to be my friend too and he …

My cheating GF 
iam falling love with her before 6 mounths.in the starting v r love very much each other.but after 4 mounths her mind is change slowly slowly....but i …

He strongly believes it was not his child.. How can I believe this? 
We have been married for 10 years and my husband cheated on me. All seem well until I started suspecting about him. It was my strong instinct about …

Confused and Frustrated -"Any suggestions on how I can crush his heart before I break up with him?" 
I recently found out that my live in boyfriend of 3 years had been having sex with his wife (he lied about that too... telling me that he was separated …

Is he cheating? can I tell through last nights sexual experiance? 
Hi I've been in an on off relationship for two years. We recently broke up for two weeks, but I have always suspected he was cheating. We had\ have a …

Semen in panties, no contact between us, but she says I'm lying. 
My story is too long to type in sentences. Read my short hand please. Married over 25years, 28yr to exact. Kids - 9 Problem started and kids told me first. …

mr worried 
Is it wrong for my wife to use a vibrator while I'm away on business. And if so, I nonshalontly asked her if she masturbates while I'm away and she says …

The Husband - "I found the same number calling and texting my wife a lot" 
I found the same number calling and texting my wife a lot over several months. She admitted it was wrong and said they were just friends. She would stop …

I have a gut feeling & have signs my boyfriend is cheating bc he tells on hisself how can i be sure what can i do to find out without him knowing  
I have a gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating, he tells on himself in different ways. How can I find out for sure without him knowing?

Pregnant and Paranoid - "Am I crazy and hormonal?" 
My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. We've had small problems here and there over the years... Mainly him talking too frequently …

"He later found out that i had been cheating on him with a friend" 
i have been with my current boyfriend for seven years now and he proposed about a year ago but he later found out that i had been cheating on him with …

Caught in action! 
I snooped on my guys computer one day, and found he had been watching porn, nothing new but then I saw that he had watched porn of a girl we both know! …

I LIVE ABROAD 
i am an indian, i live in dubai since 3 years, i work as an accountant in a telecom company in dubai. i have got married last year, and i stayed only a …

a year later and i am still waiting to meet her coworkers yet... 
well ill try o keep this short and to the point. I have been with this girl for over a year ... a year and 2 months. We now live together. I have asked …

Be Honest tell the TRUTH!!! 
My husband told me just a few days ago that a girl just came up to him out of the blue and kissed him. Me being 36 and him being 20 I knew better been …

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My wife Cheaed after 18 Years 
I caught my wife texting with her Co worker on Thanksgiving day. She was denying it even after I read her messages of how they made each other feel when …

Could she be cheating? 
About 9 years ago my wife cheated on me. We worked through it and moved on. Well, a few months ago I noticed a new number on her phone records that she's …

Pics/Porn - 'I'm at my wits end, where I feel that I'm obviously not enough for him" 
I've been married 1 1/2yrs, together 6yrs. We had a long distance for most of our relationship. When we dated, he would look at sexy pictures of other …

I Hurt So Bad! 
I am a mother of 4 beautiful children. I have been with my husband for 15 years, 11 of those years we have been married. Just recently I found out my …

My husband cheated on me six years ago with my old childhood friend 
My husband cheated on me six years ago with my old childhood friend. I had a hard time trusting him for first few years after the incident. Lately I have …

husband secretly talks to ex-girlfriend at work 
I recently found out by accident that my husband has been talking to his ex-girlfriend at least once or twice a month. Should I confront him or should …

My girlfriend kissed her friend and grabbed her boob on a dare 
My girlfriend kissed her friend and grabbed her boob on a dare. She told me and I got mad but she said she didn't think it was that big a deal should I …

I think husband is a long-term cheater... 
I've been married for eight long years. My husband works a swing shift job. When he's on 3rd shift he always groom and dyes his beard. When I ask him …

I've been married for 7 years - sex is nonexistent  
i dont get sex from my wife with out begging and she gets mad when i try to get sex

He Cheated Online - How could he do this to me?  
i have been in a long time relationship of 12 years with my bf ..we got 2 kids and just 2 months ago , we finally got married.he actually works overseas …

Both of us cheated 
Ive been with the same guy since I was 15.Im 31 now.I had a son with him when I was 16.He took care of me and our son and we had 2 more kids together.We …

Inappopriate conversations w other girls - please help 
I have been with my fiancee for the past 6 years on and off. The last 3 years have been the hardest yet the most wonderful years of my life. We have two …

Lying about gps? 
My marriage of 9 years has been very rocky. A lot of deceiving was going on, on both of our parts. We split up a few times but always end up back together …

Pleasure Talk. - "I just can't understand how she would completely give it to a stranger or person other than to me." 
I just found out that my wife of 16 years had a sexual intimate phone and letter conversation with another man whom she had worked with in the past. I …

Caught by her texts but denies it!! 
My girlfriend is a newly qualified (36 year old) nurse she started yo change her behaviour hiding her phone at night keeping her distance from me, asking …

I am always thinking he is cheating on me, I want to Kill Myself! 
I am always thinking he is cheating on me, When i'm at work or even if we are in the same room together and i ask myself "why would someone at 12am be …

my wife phone call me an i can here her talking to a guy in her car for about 20 min but theonly thing i heard let go to another bar the phone cut off 
My wife went out with her girlfriends to a club later that nite her phone call me i here her talking to a man in her car for about 20mins about going to …

I caught him cheating and now.... 
Well a long story short. So i married my high school sweetheart and now we will be married for 3 yrs next month. He is an active duty soldier and we both …

HIS TEXTING...HAS ME WORRIED 
hey my BF always erases messages from his phone, and when I ask to use it he has to have the number dialing for me, also he secertly tries to delete messages...what …

I'M WORRIED THAT MY BOYFRIEND WILL CHEAT ON ME AGAIN. 
I'M WORRIED THAT MY BOYFRIEND WILL CHEAT ON ME AGAIN I'm in a relationship now. It's been 5 yrs we go for a holiday stay together whenever we can but …

Cheating Wife - "My wife got a new phone that I paid for.." 
My wife got a new phone that I paid for and still has her old one in purse and it's been in there for the last two month, will the alarm went off this …

My wife all the sudden likes oral sex - What should I think? 
My wife all the sudden likes oral sex, and is taking care of her self. What should I think?

Looking out the window - "...CAME BACK HOME WITH HORRIBLE MARKS ON HER THIGHS AND ARM" 
MY WIFE WENT ON VACATION WITH HERE GIRLFRIENDS AND CAME BACK HOME WITH HORRIBLE MARKS ON HER THIGHS AND ARM PLUS SHE BROUGHT SEX PILLS TO MAKE YOU HORNY …

Have an Online Affair Story - Share it on The Anderson Cooper Show! 
Do you have an online affair story to share? The Anderson Cooper Show is looking for you to share your story. Their wonderful staff has contacted me and …

I need help =( 
My wife recently told me thet she cheated on me for the first five months out of eight months that we were seperated. Keep in mind we have always been …

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Should I be concerned 
I've been seeing a guy for a year and a half now. He seems to have very little interest in sex...probably once a week or less. I became very suspicious …

Mrs. Betrayed 
I discovered some emails to my husband from another woman and emails he sent to her. He claims these emails are a type of spam and not anything he sent, …

How do I proceed with this one 
I have found the following on my husband's facebook private messages. I will refer to him as H and the lady as T. H: Hi its me H, I am registered as …

Will he do it? What do i do? 
Me and my partner have been togeather for 18months, we had lived togeather for a year. We have been recently staying in diffrent towns due to unfortunate …

Suspect 
My wife has a history of cheating but it's been fairly quiet . Nothing to raise suspicion . Except She keeps her cell phone locked and close to her. …

Tirednconfused 
Gut tells me he is cheating. I asked him he denies that he has. He smiled after a text,but I can't find it on his phone,he carries his phone everywhere …

I said I didnt cheat, He says I did 
Me and my husband were going through tough times. Lets just say cops were called and we were unable to live together. I was staying in our town home with …

Newlywed, husband has cheated w/many... 
Met in Sept, engaged April, beautiful wedding June, 2011. Suspected hb of cheating when he texts that he has meeting for biz,phone battery running out,so …

Wife's letter to cheating husband 
As i sit here at 2:30am unable to sleep for the 3rd night in a row, i wonder how i could possibly get past this. my heart hurts so deeply it …

Husband had a Provocative picture of coworker on his phone,am I being over dramatic for being angry over it? 
My husband always takes great pictures on his phones,many that I do not have,every so often I like to browse and send some to myself,one morning I ask …

cheating with his secretary? 
My husband went to a convention in texas with his secretary for three days one of those days happened to be Valentines day. My husband and I had been married …

My husband out of the blue going away on a work trip? 
He has not taken a vacation in three years- and telling me if I do not go to florida we are in texas- and do this work they will fire me.. and when I ask …

My husband never wants sex anymore - "I don't know what to do anymore" 
My husband never wants sex anymore We have been married for two years now and we have sex maybe once a month. We used to have sex 4-5 times per week …

Im so confused 
I am right here with you hun. I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now and we have 2 kids together. Lately there is a woman he works with that …

I need help ASAP please! 
What my situation is, is that I am 21 years old with a little one and I have really no one to talk to about it. One day while at work I found out that …

heartbroken  
My husband and I r separted but he had said he just wants time to heal from past hurts andmoney issues. He has he will go to counselg just don't pressue …

When does it end 
So, I found out my wife cheated on me about a month and a half ago. found out because while we were on vacation, she got a text message after midnight …

When i'm away from my wife? 
i am away from my wife and my daughter co'z i am working from other country. before, my wife always contact me by phone,sms and email and chatting also. …

Do I Believe Him Or Not? 
My husband and I went on a trip for our ten year anniversary. He had been acting distant for a while and would spend hours on his laptop ignoring any and …

18 years to gether and 13 of them were based on lies and cheating 
I got with my husband a month or little less before i was 14 years of age he dint know my age for quite a while he dint ask i dint tell not that it mattered …

What to do? 
i'be been married for 25 yrs...found out my husband had cheated on me with a woman in his office..i found out the woman left and we moved on recently my …

Is He Cheating? 
Me and my husband has been married for 13 years and I thought we had a good marriage. We had some ups and downs but always seem to get through it. There …

Sweetpea - "if I'm not crazy I will be, lost 32 pds and live on stress pills" 
I HAVE A HUSBAND WHO START ACTING VERY DIFFERANT OVER THE YEARS,no interested in family or me. ALTHOUGHT HE ALWAYS HAD A WANDERING EYE ANY WOMEN WHO EYE …

Could teenage affair be transferred to an adult affair-he's now a married man 
I've been with the Love of. My Life for over 10yrs. And although we had a serious 7yr itch I thought we'll be ok...I was wrong :( we were both cheated …

John M - "The moral to the story here is to empower yourself and fight back" 
A while back I wrote in telling my tale of hundreds of phone calls made by my wife to the guy she was so desperately in love with 25 years ago. After months …

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She says coworker is a friend 
My partner of many years became close to a male worker she would go out for lunch with him and they would chat all the time at work, he would text her …

Getting over the pain :) - ".. at least he had common sense to use a condom." 
My husband cheated on me with prostitutes as well. He stated that there was no emotional ties to them, and confessed to doing it 3 times. I have to agree …

I'm a Cheater and Want it to Stop 
My story began about 10 years ago- a few months after I married my husband. His libido took a major dive, and no matter what approach I used, it never …

Life Without God 
I feel lonely all the time. How can you be married and feel lonely? I think this is a test of what do you do in this sitsuation. Earlier in my marriage …

women 
My husband went djing this year abroad and he s coming back in september how do i know if he cheated on me cause we were for more than 3 months apart. …

The hurt of a good Wife 
I been married for 8 year and to someone I Though i knew and love me or so i though. However we had problem like any couple but last year i got deploy …

Is it just me? 
My husband has begaun to erase text messages from a lady that teaches spin class. I asked why and he said he knew it made me feel uncomfortable. Then …

WANT ANSWERS - "FOUND SEVERAL TIMES PHONE NUMBERS TO WOMEN THAT HE CLAIMS ARE JUST FRIENDS.." 
i DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START. i HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEARS.THIS IS MY SECOND MARRIAGE. AT FIRST HE SWEPT ME OFF MY FEET. WE GOT MARRIED AND THEN …

NOT ADMITTING TO CHEATING 
Hi i have been with this man for 5yrs off and on as he was still with his wife for the first 4yrs. so yes i did have an affair with him at first and got …

AM I CRAZY ? 
My girlfriend of 8 years says that I am a hell raiser and that i have a problem and that just need to chill out. Well I try because I really love her . …

Signs im getting from her are that she is having an affair.  
I dont know if im being paranoid or what but the feeling i have is killing me. Things havnt been right in my 15 year marrage for a while now and its getting …

The signs point to yes...She says no they are friends 
My wife of 6 years and soulmate of 11 has recently pulled away, and become distant to me. After several stupid transgressions I had years ago via an emotional …

I'm not sure but..."I'm pregnant and I think my hubby is cheating" 
Hi, I'm pregnant and I think my hubby is cheating, he works in a hospital and I know a lot of woman like him, he is very charming...this morning I found …

Can a Marriage Be Saved After an Affair is Discovered?  
Can a Marriage Be Saved After an Affair is Discovered? I have been married for a little over 6 years to my husband. I recently found out that he was …

Don't know what to do? 
My wife has a new girlfriend and has recently started to hang out with her. I still haven't met her after a month or so. On a couple of occasions of …

cheating on me 
Well my name is Arlee and my boyfriend name is L and he always have some where to go but he does not have a job. When he comes back he tell's me that …

Need to vent - "I feel so betrayed..." 
I feel so betrayed. I feel like if you want to step out and be with someone else, then be a man and tell me that. But he wants to have his cake & …

He Makes Me Feel Like Im Insane...Am I Really? 
Almost a year ago, my husband began to pull away saying that he needed space to get his thoughts in order because he was going through a difficult time …

For Those That Have Caught Someone Cheating - Please Help! 
I am happy to have found this website, and others like this one. However, some of the warning signs sound like just text books answers and suggestions. …

Caught my Husband by using this site 
I have been suspecting my husband for cheating for a while but did not want to believe it. So I went searching for the tools that would help me find the …

in good times and in bad times?......or...how a whimp runs away...... 
two days before Christmas....I am thinking..not another charade, please!! Soo...I ask to turn of the tube...let's talk...please!..in short- his quick …

Why do I keep having dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me?  
Why do I keep having dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me? For the past week or so I have been having the worst dreams,or should I say nightmares …

Need help decoding note on my wife's cell phone 
I recently caught my wife cheating on me and we have tried to work it out. I'm trusting her now, to an extent. One thing that is odd is that she …

is this emotional abuse / will he always be a cheater 
I am married to my husband for 21 years. We were both married before this. His first marriage ended after about 3 years due to going out and doing whatever …

"Emotionally almost feels worse than physical" 
The first time I found out my husband had been talking to his long ago ex, for several months supposidly it was harmless in the begining then I found letter …

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When the Cat's away.... 
When the Cat's away ... My friend is cheating on her husband with her boss and has been for some years now. Her boss is also married his wife must …

i need to know....please help me. - " have a very strong feeling my husband is cheating" 
Hi, i have a very strong feeling my husband is cheating. He works away so there is no way for me to "see" it, he's only home on weekends but i've been …

Not sure what to do or think 
My supposed to be fiance doesnt act like he used to anymore! We have been together for over 2yrs. A couple of months back we broke up for the 3rd major …

Cheating GF? -"I am not sure if these are signs that she might be cheating. She gained a new best friend at work" 
Good evening My name is JP and I'm 20 years old. I have been with my girlfriend now for almost 3 years (2 years, 11 months). We both finished studying …

Did she cheat? - "I am just confused and can use some advice" 
I was recently married and things were going great. My wife started acting distant and was just not the same. She had gone though a rough time last …

Should I believe this or is it too far fetched? - "phone calls to a number which I don't recognize." 
I recently reviewed my phone records and discovered that there are at least a hundred phone calls to a number which I don't recognize. The calls are …

Am I off base? - "I know what all this points to" 
I will not specify gender so that all replies will not be biased. My spouse had a relationship with a co-worker that I felt was inappropriate. They …

41 years of marriage thrown away 
Last month I found out my husband of forty one years was involved in an overseas scam that resulted in over one hundred thousand dollars being lost. …

Real Hurt ..Am I Right For Feeling This Way? 
My boyfriend(well not anymore) cheated on me when i was away. A girl from his work came over got drunk and gave him a handjob. He told me the next day, …

Sex or Oral: What is the worse kind of Cheating? 
I had a friend get cheated on recently (no really, not me). His girlfriend performed oral on another guy. I said, "well at least she didn't have sex …

I'm With a Bad Man 
I'm With a Bad Man My boyfriend looks at womens bodys then gets a dreamy look in his eye and starts blinking I ask him why he stares at women he …

He sent a message to my phone and now he is saying he did not? 
Ok this is going to be hard to explain but hear goes. My boyfriend sometimes works nights with his job and most nights he rings me, on this night which …

Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater 
My boyfriend and I have been together 7 year, and today I found out he still out cheating. His only explanation was he was selfish. I forgave him the …

Worried - "Husband had an affair" 
Husband had an affair. He came out and told me. First time he was friends with her for a few months then turned sexually for about 2 weeks. It ended …

Is my husband still involved with another woman - "there were several texts from a female co worker, back and forth. " 
I have been married to my husband for 10 years. We have one child. Our marriage has always been strong and we each supported one another. As a teen …

Player -"seemed happy with me, and then became quite boastful to me that he was seeing a 'lovely girl' 
I have been with a guy for 3 years, but we do not live together. He does not want to. He has had a couple of divorces,and has kids, who live near but …

“What do WOMEN want most in the bedroom, that they’re not getting from their partners? And how do you recommend they ask their partners for it?” 
Hello everyone, Dean here. I have been asked to contribute to an upcoming book and the topics I have been asked to write about is below: “What do …

Ignoring Red Flags to my Detriment - "Anything that's typically too good to be true, typically is" 
For the past two and half years, I have had the most loving husband any woman could ever want. He was good to me and my children. I fell in love …

Is He Cheating - "he doesn't embrace me anymore" 
My husband travels alot. Most of the time when he is away I cannot reach him and he doesn't call for days at a time. He's usually quiet, and when he …

After Five Years He Tells Me He Cheated! -"recently my husband tells me he cheated three times" 
I have been married for eight years, we have two kids. And here recently my husband tells me he cheated three times, all around the same time period with …

Want to know the truth..."I suspect my wife is having an affair" 
I suspect my wife is having an affair, now i installed computer monitoring software on her computer and it has picked up a few things but she is a very …

Cheating Signs I Notice With My Wife - Please Give Opinion! 
Additionally to the signs I have read on this article and forums, I have noticed with my wife throghout the years the following: 1-Never appreciates …

Shadows on My Marriage... 
Shadows on My Marriage... After 12 years of marriage I found out my wife kept all along communication with her ex-boyfriend. When I met her they …

I'm so Confused - Where Did I Go Wrong? 
I dated my future wife to be in high school. Shortly after we graduated she had an affair which lasted about 1 month. As it turned out the guy was …

He Hurt Me Deeply...its been almost a week since he has been gone 
He did want to have sex with me before he went back to visit is hometown and now its been almost a week since he has been gone and he have not called me …

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Another Flavor Testing Your Mate 
My fiancee and I have been together for 11 months. He always tells me that he is very loyal and will never cheat. I have been cheated on twice so before …

He lied and still is seeing her a year later 
He lied and still is seeing her a year later I found out my husband started a relationship again with the same woman that he cheated on with me 14 …

I STILL CANT BELIVE IT BUT ITS TRUE... 
I still cant believe that my husband for eleven years has drastically over night changed on me ever since the birth of our third daughter. This is what …

Long story..Gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating 
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and about 4 months ago I found out he was talking to his ex girlfriend who lives a million miles …

Cheating Husband.."had too much to drink...." 
I've been married to my husband for five years. We have two girls. Last August when I was pregnant with our second child, my doctor told me I had an …

Heartbroke..this guy was sleeping with his girlfriend then sneaking into my womans bed and sleeping with her also 
I am 5`9" and my girlfriend was 5`9". I thought it was love. She lived with her female friend and the friends boyfriend who is about 6`3". Well after …

My husband is in an emotional relationship with another man 
My husband is in an emotional relationship with another man My husband starting witholding sex in the marriage shortly after the i do's. I married …

try this...i wish i had it when i went through it.  
the worst thing ive ever had to go through i had to see a doc for. he told me that i should write for one year and then look back on it when im done. …

Confused 
My wife had an affair when she flew back home alone and now expresses anger at ME, because I said in response to her question about me trusting her to …

I don't know what to think.. 
I don't know what to think... My husband had this female coworker who he would hang out with him on his lunch breaks,even look at victoria's secret …

Signs of an idiot? 
Signs of an Idiot? Been married 16 years have two children 8 & 7. Relocated to another state so wife could be closer to her family and our children …

He needs to become a bigger man... 
Well it was back in the summer, I new something ws going on cause i havent heard from him in 5 days and he always calls me everynight when he gets in from …

CHEATED WITH A FAT WHORE 
"CHEATED WITH A FAT WHORE" Okay on september 19 2009 our 1 year 1 month he went to a friends house and got drunk and had these 2 girls come over and …

She doesnt really pay much attention to me much anymore - Advice please 
I have been with my partner for about 4 years now. I am 28 and she is 39, sex seems to have gone down a bit lately and she says its because she is tired. …

But lately things have been happening - Help!! 
I have been in a long term relationship for over 4 years with my boyfriend. But lately things have been happening that have made me question our relationship. …

Just got the urge to cheat on my spouse after 10 years of marriage 
Just got the urge to cheat on my spouse after 10 years of marriage. My first time but I'm intrigued by the other guy. What should I do?

Do you think my husband is planning to cheat on me? 
Do you think my husband is planning to cheat on me? Me and my husband were married for a year now. a couple of days ago we were having a nice conversation …

Suck it up and get on with your life 
Suck it up and get on with your life. Of course you feel sorry for yourself, and you feel rightously offended. But moping arund doesn't do anyone …

Im breaking. 
I may only be 18 but i definitely feel like i could write the book on love. I've had so many bad relationships I dont even bother going to friends …

Once bitten, twice shy 
I have been with my partner for just over 2 years. You know that feeling in the pit of your stomach that something is not right... I had that feeling. …

Cheaters Beware: Serial STD Spreader Potentially Out There! 
Cheaters Beware: Serial STD Spreader Potentially Out There! Cheaters Beware! For those of you men and women that find it okay to visit sites such as …

Is my wife cheating on me? 
My family is currently residing here in Bahrain. I work in an office exclusive for all male professionals. My wife works in a hospital as a Secretary …

My cheating lier of a husband 
I've been married two years April 2007, I was contacted May 26 2009 by my husband’s mistress, and she notified me she had been having an affair with my …

What to do now? 
My ex left me on father's day in 09. She went to vist her family in Illionis and cheated on me with this man that she just met 7 hours before she had sex …

HELP! 
Do you think I should take me having a dream about my boyfriend hugged up with one his female friends? I never really trusted her to much for someone …

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HELP! 
Do you think I should take me having a dream about my boyfriend hugged up with one his female friends? I never really trusted her to much for someone …

Is my husband still cheating? 
I am married for eleven years..My husband was not with us for eight years,we got together last 2006 same year when I found out that my husband was having …

I Suspect My Husband is Cheating on Me! How Do I Bust Him? 
I suspect my husband is cheating on me. We have been married for 8 years now, and things slowly started to change with it coming to the point where we …

Wife Pushing Me ,to Another Lady..I Need Advice... 
My wife has had breast cancer, A friend (Sue) of ours husband had cancer also and has passed away, he was like a brother to me,that I never had. He …

No Sex and Emotionally Disconnected!!! 
My husband and I have been married for 1 yr and 6 months. lately before and after some dui issues, he's been distant. He doens't kiss mee like he use …

What I wrote about....this is how he feels about me what do I do?  
His dreams are heaven and as he awakes all he can do his look to his side and see her beautiful face. He shouldn’t be here but he knows if he goes …

Texting Ex Co-Worker 
I found a phone history of my husband texting his old coworker. The texting happened usually late at night. I confronted him and he said they were only …

Not good enough.. 
I am a single mother fell in love with a single man with no ties. We have been together over 6 years and have a two year old together with marriage. …

CHEATING ON HIS PREGNANT WIFE 
MY FRIEND, HER HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON HER FOR THE PAST TWO YEARS. THEY HAVE TWO LITTLE BOYS, AND ONE MORE ON THE WAY. NOBODY HAS THE GUTS TO OPEN THEIR …

Sugestion/Advise related to Divorce/compromise during later stage of married life? 
I am male 60 yrs ,wife 56 yrs.We married in 1970.It was arranged marriage of our liking. We had first issue in 1972.& then an abortion in 72 end. In1975 …

But I didn't act on anything...... 
I'm a breast cancer survivor 7 years and in those 7 years i have managed to become emotional withdrawn from my husband 0f 28 years.......... So it's all …

Husband flirting with his secretary? 
I don't know what to do i feel sad mad hurt i wanna be strong and shrug it off because i figure my husband is doing this to make me jealous but i cant …

The Ex - Payback is a B*tch 
My ex-husband and I split up 8 yrs ago because I caught him cheating. We had talked on and off in the past 8 yrs. About a yr ago he called me to tell me …

I cheated.... 
My husband and i married on our 1 year anniversary, i was 17 and he was 18 years old. We married 2 weeks after our daughter passed away from S.I.D.S. …

Is cheating contagious? 
My boyfriend cheated on me emotionally and physically. He also "cheated" on the other girl. He told her I had died in a tragic car accident, though it …

Chat Room Cheating 
My beautiful partner of 3 years, im divorced, he is single, frequented chat sites on a sexual level etc last year and whilst i believed it to be cheating, …

Confused Wife in SC 
I have caught my husband having 2 inappropriate "friendships". One with a married mutual friend and one with a stranger. The last one is still somewhat …

Are you serious? 
Well I found out that my wife has been sending and receiving provocative pictures via cell phone with about 5 different guys. There has also been pretty …

Husband Father dream guy...... 
I don't know where to start. I'm in the military (US Navy) and a 6 year old daughter. My family is from another country and just recently came to the …

Is he cheating? 
I have ask him if he is cheating on me and he says no. He works all the time 10 to 15 hours a day he gets paid for all the hours he works. What do …

Candi 
My husband portrays a very professional image, yet he is leading a double life. I married a caring, heartfelt, sincere, loving, honest man, but the man …

PHONES tell a Story... 
I know that my boyfriend was cheating on me when he kept getting calls and not telling me who they were from and he got texts and would not tell me how …

Top 9 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating 
You have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, something is not right but you can not quite figure out what that feeling is about. Your spouse …

Found Massage Oil in her nightstand - Is she cheating? Teke27 
I found sexy lingerie and flavored massage oils in my wifes nightstand in the bedroom. Both items had been used, just not with me. When I questioned …

Do You Believe In Karma? 
Do You Believe In Karma? I cheated on my husband several times and I don't think I feel as bad as I should. I think and think about it and I always …

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Lost My Friend 
I recently came across phone records showing my wife making regular phone calls, 2 to 4 per day during her working hours with some one she used to go to …

Is she cheating? 
My wife went on a Hawaiian cruise with her 3 sisters. She has been gone for over a week and I have only heard from her once in an email. In the email …

Looking for advice, I am not sure if this is the right place 
Foremost, If you wouldn't mind taking the time to read my email, I would be grateful. Firstly, I am a man and I am also the extramarital lover …

Why? How? Where? When? 
We have been together 2 years. Things have always been great I have never suspected he would ever cheat. About 4 months ago we had a miscarriage. Since …

Is She A Cheater 
We`ve been together for seven months now and it was very nice and romantic. This past several months now she has been comming home with bruises on the …

Possibility of husband cheating with his ex wife 
My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for 3 of those years. He has 2 children with his ex. We have custody. She has had an on and …

Not So Sure 
Ok Well, I'm going to try. Day after Christmas, I come home, husband putting away some groceries he purchased and proceeds upstairs to the shower. …

Stubbled across 
I went out of town with my two 9 year olds to visit family. I came back and discovered 3 used condoms & wrappers in my husbands garbage can, granted …

I think my husband is cheating 
I'm 7 months pregnant and I really am not feeling the sex. We havent had sex for about 3 months. He hasnt approached me or shown any interest in having …

I Just Don't Know..If She Is Cheating 
In Short 18 months ago my wife changes from a women who was not at all into the bar scene, she liked friends over and entertaining at home and other …

Worried, Concerned, and Confused about what's going on? 
Well my story is out of the "normal", I am a 31 year old man and unlike most other posters on the site, my situation doesn't involve a woman, yet it involves …

A Sign He Is Up To No Good.... 
My boyfriend of 2 years has been very critical of me lately. I can't do anything right. He even told me he thought the time I spent paying bills was taking …

Everybody Makes Mistakes 
Anyone can cheat and dont make it look obvious. I am a cheater and i try everyday to maintian to be faithful to the man that loves me, and I cheated and …

Movie tickets in my husband's pants pocket when he left OKC to go to WV to a football game. He said that he just happened to pick them up. What is up with this story? 
I have always trusted my husband until he went back to W V to a football game and returned home with movie stubs in his pants pockets. He denies going …

Too Naive? 
I read a text message on my husband's cell phone that at first was "business" then asking about meeting for lunch and then got raunchy. The sender gave …

Paranoid or Reasonable Doubt? 
This isn't a long story, nor is it very dramatic or exciting. I'm a 20 year old male from the Northwest who is worried about his current relationship. …

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Here are some more signs of a cheating spouse that you should know. 

  • His stories aren't making sense. This is because he will make up a story at that time and for the moment not realizing that the date or times don't add up.

  • He will sometimes forget what he told 3 days ago. So make a mental note and ask again casually in 3 days. Work will seem to pop up a lot to cover time lapses. This is classic. I was the hardest working man when I was cheating!
  • He doesn't invite you around his friends, company events, and other social activities. Is he cheating at work? It can be worse than a nightclub. There will probably be less of a chance that he is cheating at a night club.

  • You get that gut feeling that tells you he's cheating on you. Things just aren't adding up. You all of sudden feel the need to go through his belongings almost expecting to find something.

  • Unusual mood swings. These are one of many signs of cheating men that is caused by the internal conflict and struggle that you man is going through during his time of infidelity.

  • When you question your man he gets very defensive. He might even get mad at you to throw you off. He is hoping that you will put your thoughts of infidelity to rest if you are afraid to ask about it.

  • You are feeling that dis-connected feeling within your relationship. Remember that see-saw back in the school yard. When one side went up, you know where the other side was.

    This is usually the same when your mate is having an affair. Many times there is a deeper problem in the relationship that would need to be fixed anyhow if you are to truly be happy. Although you are not to blame for someone stepping out on a relationship, infidelity is usually a symptom of a deeper problem.

  • You discover e-mail accounts that you didn’t know existed. He will refuse to give you access to his email account. He's not stupid! Is he?

  • The sex frequency has changed! 

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