What to do about son in law's advances
(Houston, TX, USA)
I don't want to tell my husband or my daughter because it would ruin so many lives. But I have to wonder if he comes on to other women as well. Daughter has 2 young children with him and is stay at home mom right now. I am sure she doesn't know that he gave me a long, pelvic grinding hug, or propositioned me once with "no one will know but us", and even after being rejected found an opportunity to rub against my behind when I was bending over to retrieve a pillow for my sleeping grand daughter (HIS daughter)while family was just around the corner. These episodes always happen after drinking, I reject him (quietly so no one will know)and then when we see one another again it's as if it didn't happen. Thought it would go away after rejection, but see a pattern developing. I will admit that it was flattering, but I am also appalled. How can he do this? He and his wife seem to have a good relationship and she would be devastated. He and my husband are great friends, again, how could he do this? I need advise.