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I am doing that myself!
by: Anonymous

Kudos to you! I am doing something similar myself now. Im married to him for many years and we split up in January and he moved to another state. In the mean time he moved in with another and then are communication started back up with texting and got stronger over a short period. He was telling me he lived on his own and he was using this other person for money. After he came to visit which the sex was hot I discovered the truth. So I started up my crusade. I knew all the passwords to everything he has had and watched the truth unfold. I even discovered the other had an account on adult site. They were cheating on him. Got that proof-I made up a fake account and they emailed me with even personal pics & putting him down. Then I got skype his other is out of town alot so we would skype all day long Which is great because it took pics of him in their house and I never had to step foot in it. I even had pics of when he was on the phone with them he was online with me. I then sent an email to the others account as from a company on how to catch a cheater giving them info on how to spy so they would do the checking and would discover this info themself. Which they did do. Now he is out on his butt & when he asked for me to come back home I said I cant right now because his other let me know he was playing me and that I wanted my divorce. Now he cant lie to cover up what he did he was caught red handed in both cookie jars. The best part no one knows I did anything but be a victim. Which I was for years and now I am not. He cant lie his way out of this one...

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I really don't understand why you would still want to be talking to this guy everyday??
by: Anonymous

I really don't understand why you would still want to be talking to this guy everyday??

He's only latching on to you again, because she kicked him out!! you deserve better, get your money back fromt he lying low life and treat yourself to a nice holiday with a good girlfriend!! hope you dont go back to him.

Your self esteem will end up in tatters xxx

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so sad
by: natt

i feel sorry for her and ov you still want him as you wouldnt talk to him

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in repsonse...
by: Anonymous

I don't regret anything. He's actually relieved. And he has an opportunity to be an honest person, and start over. When he first contacted me the night she got the package, the first text to me said, "I can't believe you stabbed me in the back like that, it hurt me so much."

Your guy will be blindsided, and unless there's a history of violence, he'll know he deserved it, and maybe respect you for standing up, which is what's happened to me. Keep me posted.

p.s. the Dr. Phil show has contacted us about going on the show. I'm on the fence about it.

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DID IT HELP
by: Anonymous

DO YOU FEEL BETTER FOR DOING IT. I AM JUST ABOUT TO DO THE SAME THING BUT I AM SCARED OF BEING ATTACKED BY HIM.

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The rest of the story
by: Paula

So, I sent the package to her, exactly a month to the day before their wedding. Ironically, they were packed and about to fly to Hungary for him to introduce her to his family. The first person she called was her attorney. Next, she called the movers. After that, she began calling her friends and family, and telling them the wedding was off, and read the texts to them. Then, she called his friends and clients and did the same thing.

Let's just say that not only was she not grateful to me, she hacked into his email and sent me a nasty note saying he and I deserve each other. She also gave my first and last name to their friends, and I was getting hate emails from people I'd never heard of.

The biggest surprise of all, is that he doesn't hate me, and we've been talking every day since this happened. Most of his friends turned their back on him, and now, I feel sorry for him. You never know how these things will turn out.

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