CELL PHONES ARE THE KEY TO CATCH A CHEATING MAN!!

by ANGIE
(TAMPA ,FL)

I AM 41 YEARS OLD, A SINGLE MOTHER, AND HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON MY WHOLE LIFE. I FEEL I AM A VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WITH A LOT TO OFFER, BUT IT ALWAYS SEEMS I GET THE SHORT END OF THE STICK EVERYTIME!


I WILL ADMIT, ALL MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS I HAVE CAUGHT THEM CHEATING THROUGH THEIR CELL PHONES. IT IS THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAY THESE FOOLS LEAVE BEHIND TO MANY CLUES.

MY RECENT BREAK UP HAPPENED ABOUT A MONTH AGO..AFTER DATING HIM FOR 2 YEARS. IVE ALWAYS HAD THAT GUT FEELING THAT SOMETHING WASNT GOING RIGHT..

I EVEN USED TO JOKE WITH HIM SAYING "IS THAT YOUR OTHER GIRLFRIEND TEXTING YOU?" WELL, IT WAS..AND I ALWAYS FELT IT, EVEN QUESTIONED HIM ON IT, BUT OF COURSE HE ALWASY DENIED IT..

HE WOULD DO THE OLD ERASING ALL TEXTS B4 COMING TO MY HOUSE EVERYNIGHT, SO WHEN HE WOULD LAY HIS PHONE DOWNSTAIRS AT NIGHT,(WHICH DIDNT HAPPENED TO OFTEN..HE KEPT THAT PHONE NEAR HIM AT ALL TIMES ON VIBERATE..)THAT IS NUMBER ONE CLUE..PHONE ON VIBRATE AND ALWAYS HAVING IT CLOSE TO THEM!!!

I WOULD CHECK IT, BUT COULD NEVER FIND ANYTHING, UNTIL ONE DAY I GOT UP AT 5 AM TO GO TO THE FLEA MARKET AND WAS GOING TO USE HIS TRUCK, WELL I HEARD THE PHONE BEEP SO I CHECKED THE TEXT, AND YUP..

THERE SHE WAS! THE TEXT SAID I MISS YOU FROM 12:30 AM THE PREVIOUS MORNING, ALONG WITH A PIC OF HER, AND A CARTOON ANIMATED CHARACTOR THAT SAID HUGS AND KISSES!!!

OK..NOW IM NOT THAT STUPID..I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO HIM, BECASUE I NEEDED TO USE HIS TRUCK THAT MORNING, SO HE WOKE UP, AND IT KILLED ME NOT TO SAY ANYTHING..I LEFT AND TRIED CALLING HER BUT SHE WOULD NOT PICK UP.. ALL 6 TIMES THAT I TRIED.


OF COURSE WHEN I CAME HOME AT NOON..HE SWORE UP AND DOWN SHE IS CRAZY, SHE TEXTS HIM ONCE IN AWHILE..FOR SHE WAS AN EX FROM A 1 MONTH BREAK UP WE HAD..

HE HAD TO RUN OUT AND FIND SOMEONE THAT QUICK! SO I KNEW HE WAS SEEING HER, BUT HE SWORE HE BROKE IT OFF 4 MONTHS EARLIER WHEN WE GOT BACK TOGETHER!


HE TRIED COMING OVER 2 TIMES DURING THE WEEK, BUT MY HEART KNEW NOT TO BELIEVE HIM..IT ACHED SO BAD WITH A GUT WRENCHING FEELING THAT HE WAS JUST A LIAR..AND TRYING TO COVER IT UP..

I EVEN MADE HIM CALL HER AS I WAS THERE, BUT OF COUSRSE SHE DIDNT ANSWER AND HE HUNG UP AND SAID, THER I TRIED CALLING HER! LIKE IT MATTERED, SHE NEVER PICKED UP.HE HAD EVERY CHANCE TO TELL ME THE TRUTH AND HE CONTINUED TO LIE ABOUT IT!


SO I BROKE IT OFF WITH HIM...HE CALLED AND BEGGED ME TO TAKE HIM BACK, THAT THERE IS NOTHING GOING ON..SO I TOLD HIM..THE ONLY WAY I WOULD EVER TAKE YOU BACK IS IF YOU GAVE ME YOUR PASSWORD TO YOUR CELL PHONE ACCOUNT..

THAT IS THE ONLY WAY I WILL NO THE TRUTH..WELL, 3 WEEKS GO BY..AND CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT DUMB SON OF A B... TEXTS ME AND SAYS HE CANT LIVE WITHOUT ME, HE MISSES ME, AND HE IS READY TO GIVE ME THE PASSWORD TO HIS CELL PHONE ACCOUNT!!!! I COULDNT BELIEVE IT!!! HE SAID I WILL FIND NO CALLS TO HER..

SO I RAN ONLINE WHILE HE GIVES ME THE PASSWORD AND LOW AND BEHOLD I ALMOST HAD A HEART ATTACK IN MY CHAIR!!!YA THERE WAS ONLY 3 CALLS TO HER BUT THAT DUMB ASS HAD NO IDEA THAT TEXTS SHOWED UP ON THE DETAILED PHONE BILL WITH A TIME STAMP, PHONE NUMBER, IF YOU TEXTED IN OR IF YOU TEXTED OUT!! I KNEW HE DIDNT KNOW THAT OR HE WOULDVE NEVER GAVE IT TO ME!!

I COUNTED OVER 400 TEXTS TO THIS FEMALE IN 3 MONTHS!! ALOT OF THEM FROM MY OWN HOUSE..AS WE SIT OUT ON THE PORCH TOGETHER!! I COULDNT BELIEVE IT..HE COMES OVER EVERY NIGHT TO MY HOUSE AND SPENDS THE NIGHT..HES TEXTING HER, THEN EVEN WAKING UP AND TEXTING HER THE MINUTE HE LEAVES TO GO TO WORK!! WHAT A PIECE OF WORK!!

I TRIED TO ANALIZE THE BILL AS FAST AS I COULD AS I PRINTED OUT THE LAST 4 MONTHS...HE KEPT TEXTING SAYING,SO YOU WONT TALK TO ME KNOW!! I WAS SO HURT..MY HEART JUST FELT SO MUCH PAIN..LIKE IT WAS BEING PULLED FROM MY CHEST AND RIPPED WITH A DISCUST OF BETRAYAL..WHEN I FINALLY CALLED HIM..HE ALMOST DIED WHEN I TOLD HIM ABOUT THE TEXTS SHOWING UP! HE STILL LIED ABOUT IT!! TELLS ME IF WE CAN GET BACK TOGETHER, I CAN CHECK HIS BILL EVERY DAY, AND IM SORRY, SHES JUST A FRIEND..UNBELIEVABLE..

SO WHEN I LOOKUP AT THE ONLINE ACCOUNT.. I SEE HER NUMBER APPEAR ON A TEXT THAT HE JUST TEXTED HER!!HE HAD THE NERVE TO TEXT HER WHILE TRYING TO GET BACK WITH ME!!TRYING TO DRAG ME INTO ANOTHER JOY RIDE OF HIS SICK FANTASYS OF HAVING THIS 2 WAY LIFE?

I MADE A COPY OF THE BILL, LOOKED UP HER NAME, FOUND HER ON MY SPACE, WITH A GUY AND IT SAYS SHES IN A RELATIONSHIP TOO! SO I PRINTED THAT OUT, HE WAS ARRESTED LAST YEAR FOR GRAND THEFT, WHICH I NEVER KNEW ABOUT AS WELL, SO I PRINTED THAT OUT, SHE WAS ARRESSTED A MONTH EARLIER FOR A DUI,(THATS WHY SHE CALLED HIM HE SAYS, TO HAVE HIM HELP HER..YA RIGHT!)

I PRINTED THAT OUT AS WELL..AND I MADE A COPY OF THE PHONE BILLS AFTER I ANALIZED THE LIVING SHIT OUT OF THEM AND WROTE ALL THE DAYS I KNEW HE WAS HERE ON THEM! AND I LOADED UP ALL THE LITTLE TRINKETS THAT HE HAD BOUGHTEN ME IN THE PAST 2 YEARS ALONG WITH THE DEAD ROSES AND CARDS I HAD SAVED,PUT THEM IN A GARBAGE BAG, AND LEFT AT HIS BACK PATIO ALONG WITH A NOTE..

IM SURE WHEN HE WOKE UP WITH A HANG OVER THE NEXT MORNING HE PROBABLY FELL OVER SEEING ALL THE PRINT OUTS THAT I HAD LEFT HIM! REMEMBER NOW, HE DONT HAVE A COMPUTER, SO HE HAD NO IDEA WHAT THEM PHONE BILLS THAT I WAS LOOKING AT FOR 1 WEEK REALLY LOOKED LIKE ONCE PRINTED OUT AND HIGHLIGHTED WITH ALL 4OO OF HER TEXTS ON IT..OF COURSE..MY LAST TEXT FROM HIM AT 10:30 THAT SAT. MORNING WAS...THIS IS GETTING SCARY..WHAT THE F...? I NEVER TEXTED BACK! I KNOW HE LOOKS AT THEM PRINT OUTS EVERY DAY JUST WISHING HE WOULDVE NEVER BEEN SUCH A JACK ASS TO GIVE ME HIS PASSWORD!!!! HE WILL NEVER GET THE CAHNCE WITH ME AGAIN..AND I KNOW ITS KILLING HIM.

WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY IS..TRUST IS SUCH A HARD THING TO EARN FROM ANYBODY..WHEN YOU HAVE THEM INSTINCS,,MY GOSH..GO WITH YOUR HEART!! ALWAYS!! I TRIED TO GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT BECAUSE OF ALL MY PAST BAD EXPERIENCES WHICH INCLUDED THIS UNFAITHFUL SITIATION ALL THE TIME..BUT NEVER LET GO OF THAT GUT WRENCHING FEELING..SOMEBODY UP THERE WAS TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING, BUT I WASNT LISTENING..

I WAS WARNED BY HIS FRIENDS IN THE PAST ABOUT THIS, WHICH IVE ONLY MET 3 TIMES, HE NEVER BROUGHT ME AROUND THEM..ANOTHER SIGN!!

IF YOU FEEL IT..IT IS MOST LIKELY THERE..DO YOUR INVESTIGATING SOON..THE MORE YOU PUT IT OFF..THE MORE IT WILL HURT YOU..AND THE FURTHER HE GETS WITH HER..ALWAYS CHECK THEIR CELL PHONES!!!! NO MATTER WHAT..ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO FIND OUT EARLY THAN LETTING THEM KEEP MAKING FOOLS OF US..THATS WHAT THEY THRIVE ON..THE CHASE OF NOT GETTING CAUGHT..ITS AN ADRENILIN RUSH FOR THEM..

DONT LET THEM GET AWAY WITH IT..TO BE CAUGHT IS THEIR WORST FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK WOMAN..

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gay or not gay??
by: confused

i have a much like much different experience than yours , actually it is not an experience yet its a living situation as i found texts on my husband of 6 years , my 2 girls father from and to male friends which clearly indicates that my husband is a gay!! at first i totally collapsed ,screamed and yelled i 4got to say that he was out of the country and gave me his cellular to use it and forgot to erase the texts, i confronted him on the phone and first he denied that he knew these people and he is not the one who sent these messages but then his name was mentiond in some of the messages , he then admitted to send them but he swore that he is not a gay and that he was only being joking and all the other excuses he would say,when he came back i checked his web history and i found alot of gay sites when confronting him again he denied it all too and said that some foreign friends borrowed his laptop for a week and that they might have browsed these sites, we are from a conservative community and such behavior is considered to be a crime and he could be arrested , i came around my senses after a while and i realized that i do not want to get a divorce and don,t want to affect my children by any means , see i'm a very very devoted mother who could sacrifice her whole life for her kids, this was almost 6 months ago , we traveled together and we are leading a normal life, not sexually though as since we got married i never felt that he is really interested in having sex with me and we do it very few times a a month and may be 3 months with not touching each other.. i know for sure that he is hiding lots of things from me now all i want to make sure of IS HE ONLY CURIOUS ABOUT GAY LIFE or he is A GAY???!!!!!

Need Advice - "your story is much like mine except I have been married to my husband over 20 years"
by: Married and Concerned

Wow,your story is much like mine except I have been married to my husband over 20 years and recently he got a new phone and found instant messaging. He searches Ashley Madison and even set up an account (charged it to my cc!) He said that he and his buddies chipped in together. He has been out of town for almost a week and no one has logged on as him. (Yes, I found his profile myself- and we argued over that!)He said that he was searching for people he knew and enjoyed looking at the profiles. Then I found out that he can access it using his cell phone. The cell is in my name but Sprint says that they don't keep track of text messages or instant messaging so I was wondering how I find that information.
thanks to anyone who takes time to help me.
Sincerely,
Wasted 20 years???

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