confused Kay

by Stacia Leslie
(Canada)

Okay I have been with this man for 10 yrs now we have 3 boys together.I

In the summer I signed the two oldest boys up for soccer,one day after soccer my son said to me that one of the child on his team said that his dad was at his house to see his mother.

I asked him about it and he denied it,the next week the same child said to my son that he was just joking about what he said the week before.

After that the child never returned to soccer. Anyhow this man started going out of fridays to a pub not too far from us,he would leave on friday and return home and sunday and would claim he was at his sister's house.

I checked his cell and saw the lady number it was the same person from soccer he claimed to have known her long time from high school I told him I didn't buy the story and told him I knew he was cheating.

At christmas we we're suppose to go to my aunts house for dinner, I went from early to help with the cooking he was suppose to join us later,he didn't show up and the kids we're mad i called and he said that he was at his sister's house and that he felt sick.

I left my older son at my aunts place and took the baby and left and went straight to his sisters house when i got there the other woman was there having dinner with them,I got pissed and left he came home 2 days later with gifts for my kids from this woman she sent gifts for each of them calling herself aunt i threw them away and cussed out this stupid man and told him to go be with his lover.

Anyhow he claim his family is the most important thing to him and that he does not want to leave the problem is I don't think that I'll ever be able to trust him again. I feel like the love is gone and that he's gonna do the same thing I'm just really confused.

I don't know how to move on.