Dumbass

by Danielle
(United States)

Hello, found this sight as a pissed off ex. I feel lucky on this site.


My ex didn't have sex with anyone else but I feel what he did was terrible. He was in a relationship with another girl while we were dating.

He wasn't sleeping with her but she knew me and him were breaking up before I did. Last weekend we were planning our wedding.

This weekend he told me that he "had feelings for" this other girl. I guessed who correctly. He then went on to tell me they've already talked and are both on the same page.

I feel as though he was just waiting for someone else to come around. I know this sounds juvenile but Facebook made this worse as well.

Within hours of our break up, he was "in a relationship" with her on Facebook. Before i had a chance to tell my friends we were over, they found out because he was dating someone else.

I understand that if he doesn't love me we shouldn't be together and I actually even feel better off without him but the fact that he handled all of this the way he did is sad because I expected so much more from him.

He was just a great guy. Luckily, i got the ring to pawn and will hopefully be taking a nice vacation with my girlfriends this summer because of it.

Good riddance to the ass. Also, I have already created a "my new boyfriend will have..." list. Its everything he didn't have that I need my next boyfriend to have.

Top of the list is "Taller than me" and then second is "older than me" (no immature asses anymore). Good Riddance!

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WOW THANK U :)
by: MANUEL

HOLY SHIT! THIS IS SO ME! MY BF DID THE SAME THING TO ME! WE BROKE UP ON 03/18/2010 AND HE POSTED ON FB 03/26/2010 HE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP!

I MEAN WHAT A FUCKING ASSHOLE! I WENT THRU THE SAD PHASE BUT TODAY IS MY DAY AND THANKS TO YOUR POSTING I WILL START MY LIST! I WILL GET THRU THIS!!!!

He is a dumbass!
by: Anonymous

Danielle,

I think this is blessing in disguise. Imagine the potential consequences of marrying that dumbass!

I think the truth was revealed to you at the right time. Stay strong, because it will get better and I like your "Has to Have List"!

Christine



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