heartbroken

My husband and I r separted but he had said he just wants time to heal from past hurts andmoney issues.

He has he will go to counselg just don't pressue him. Will ealry this I found out he is texting a sixteen year old girl that we both know. He said he is heping her look for a car.

He texted me also and said he was bored. In short is it cheating if my husband is texting a sixteen year old girl all hours of the night and morning. He says he did nothing wrong and if I can't trust him we have nothing.

Please help I love him but I don't want to be stupid. We have three wonderful kids 7 1and 2 years they live with me. We will be married 10 years this coming april.

Thanks for any advice. We also r a christian couple church use to be a big part of lives but over the years things have changed.