I Fear That He May Be Cheating

by WorriedSoonToBeWife

Well, how do I begin? I guess the different attitude started about 3 months ago. I just put it off to new job and new stress.


But then I began to see other things. We wasn't having sex as much (try 3 times in the past 3 months), when he got a phone call around me, he would walk away to talk, he keeps his phone on silent also, his attitude has done a complete 180.

He has frequent mood swings. So, as an effect of these changes, I have been suffering insomnia for 2 weeks.

I have been having the "gut feeling" that he's cheating for about a month, and I have discussed these feelings with him. But, he gets very defensive and says that I'm "talking crazy".

I have looked through his text messages, but he seems to remember to delete alot of them. The ones I have found are very surprising. His language(to keep it clean) is very different than what is normal for him.

The "weird" text messages are to people that I have never heard of, too. I am concerned about how to approach this discussion with him. Any help would be very appreciated!!

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Good Luck! - I've been the "Other Woman"
by: Anonymous

I've been the "Other Woman" 4 times in my life so far, and I think he's cheating. I'm sorry to tell you that, but you probably knew in your heart.
All you have to do is sit him down, look him in the eye, and ask him flat-out if he is cheating. And if he says no, you'll know if he is telling the truth or not.
Then you have to decide where to go from there.
Good Luck!

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