I Fear That He May Be Cheating

by WorriedSoonToBeWife

Well, how do I begin? I guess the different attitude started about 3 months ago. I just put it off to new job and new stress.

But then I began to see other things. We wasn't having sex as much (try 3 times in the past 3 months), when he got a phone call around me, he would walk away to talk, he keeps his phone on silent also, his attitude has done a complete 180.

He has frequent mood swings. So, as an effect of these changes, I have been suffering insomnia for 2 weeks.

I have been having the "gut feeling" that he's cheating for about a month, and I have discussed these feelings with him. But, he gets very defensive and says that I'm "talking crazy".

I have looked through his text messages, but he seems to remember to delete alot of them. The ones I have found are very surprising. His language(to keep it clean) is very different than what is normal for him.

The "weird" text messages are to people that I have never heard of, too. I am concerned about how to approach this discussion with him. Any help would be very appreciated!!