If you chatted with me about revenge, please contact me

Well, somebody contacted my wife's ex-lover's wife on multiple occasions about the affair, but the details were from me and apparently my wife lied to me so she now thinks it was me who sent the letters.

It seems to point to me, but I DIDN'T DO IT! She won't believe me.

I have told a few people and mentioned it in chat rooms and discussion board that I wanted somebody to do that.

I went as far as providing some details about the cheater and his wife. If you remember chatting with me in the chat room on this site, please e-mail me.

My wife says I need to prove to her that I didn't do it. I DID NOT but have no proof, but all proof points otherwise, so please email me at abates75@yahoo.com com if you remember chatting with me. Thanks!