Is It Cheating/Adultery/Job

by Josh
(Huntsville Al)

ok so my girlfriend was an escort when i met her, and has since quit being an escort but questions still arise about whether or not her being with other men while we were together is considered cheating/adultery/infidelity ?


or is it considered just a job and even though she was having sexual relations with other men while we are together...Yes i was aware of what was going on and i took her to these calls and i even spent the money that she was given by these men...

now I have been accused of cheating on her with other females not nearly as many as her known "CALLS" that i took her to...lol guess you can say I was pimping out my girlfriend for the cash,drugs, lifestyle..now question we are now asking and we cant come to an agreement on is .....

1. if i was to have sexual relations with anyone other than her while we r together am I called a cheater.... yes

2. if she has any type sexual relations with anyone other than me is it cheating??

3. She considered escorting as a "JOB" and because she got paid and i was aware of it she don't even consider this adultery...

4. she sees escorting as a job she says and even tho she was with hundreds of men while i was with her she see nothing wrong with this..

5.now I am accused of having sex with say 4 or 5 different women and she cant prove that i was with any of them, now I told her 2 of them she was correct on ,and this was a year ago and i still get blamed as if i'm cheating on her right now..

I told her me being with these 2 women hell even if it was 10 women that is nothing compared to her 100+... now the million dollar question at hand is how come she tripping on me about having sex with another woman when she had sex with other men..

I feel like she is making what she done ok in her mind nothing done wrong because she was getting paid to do it, and according to her I am the cheater ....yea crazy right??

the way I see it both of us are cheating on each other whether we got paid for sex or not paid,at the least we r both committing adultery and both of us are in the wrong...

but like i said she only sees this one sided...yes i was wrong and i admit that now what she did as far as being an escort was doing me wrong...like we both did each other wrong..

now she is no longer an escort and i have been completely faithful to her for the last year but this constant argument keeps being brought up and its getting old...can someone please settle this argument for us...

is she still committing adultery/cheating on me with other men even though i knew what was happening and was ok with it???

Is having sexual relations with someone other than your partner cheating adultery or what would you call it...

If i can deal with her being an escort back then why cant she accept me being with another woman 1 time back around the same time...I admit i was wrong for what i done and i wish i never did it ...she has no remorse for what she done it always comes back to me n these other women...according to her i'm the cheater and she did no wrong...

Please let us know what the rest of the people in the world feel about our lil situation

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