Is Sexting Considered Cheating? My Mind Is Going Crazy!

Is sexting considered cheating? I recently found sexting text messages on my girlfriends phone. She left to work one morning and forgot her cell at home. When she called home, she seemed overly concerned about her phone. I wouldn’t have thought anything of it until her actions made me suspicious.

I must admit I snooped, but only because of how she was acting towards her phone. I can understand someone getting mad if someone else went snooping through their belongings, but what about if you find something wrong by doing so? That is what happened to me. I found several sexting texts back and forth between my girlfriend and someone else.

I know of this person, but I do not know this person. From what I know, and what she told me, this person is a very good friend from the past that she reconnected with on Facebook.

For those of you that don’t know what sexting is, it is:

Sexting is a term coined by the media that generally refers to sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude photos or sexually suggestive messages through text message or email.

The messages I saw did not include any pictures, but the language was very provocative and very sexually suggestive.

I would like others opinions on , is sexting considered cheating?

I confronted my girlfriend and she tried to make it seem as if I was wrong and psycho for going through her phone. She tells me that if I don’t trust her then maybe I shouldn’t be with her.

Well, after seeing those sexting texts, she is RIGHT!! I don’t trust her.

Even if she didn’t do anything with this guy, I can’t help to believe that things could get physical in the future based on the sex texts that I saw.

One particular text said something like: “I can’t wait…until then.. :) “

Please, I would like to hear your thoughts, feedback, suggestions..anything…my mind is going crazy!

Is sexting considered cheating? Do I have a right to be angry? Is SHE in the wrong?

and what should I do?

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