Just Tying to Uderstand....

by Diane
(Brisbane)

My husband had adult dating profiles for about 6 months that I know of! When I found the first one he deleted it and said he was looking for erotic stories!

I had been able to get into the account before he deleted it and he had sent an email to a swingers group asking what the next step was!!!

I was sick to think he would even consider this! When I told him I had read every email, wink etc he said he was just curious!

1year later I am still unconvinced of his motives. Do you think he did cheat or was planning to?

He has been great for a couple of months but I am not, I pretend everything is normal and check his email etc every chance I get.

I am sad that this was a man I had all the trust in the world for and now I can't even accept that he is out of the office meeting with clients for work....

Help me understand why married men put themselves on these sites if they are not wanting to find sex with others?