My Cheating Wife

by Brokenangel
(Canberra, Australia)

My wife, (******* ****** *****, a.k.a "G"), cheated on me before and after our wedding in September 2008 with a guy she met at poker in Queanbeyan, M S (a.k.a. "F"). They and their friends used fake names to try to cover their tracks and thought it was all pretty damn funny. B best friend J J (a.k.a. "S") encouraged B with text messages asking how their flirting was going and emails telling B "you know you want M body".

Well it wasn't hard to see that something was wrong. B went from the girl I knew, who wanted nothing more than a baby, a house of her own, and a man who loved her, to a mindless party girl. She stopped being interested in her home and her family, she only came home long enough to get ready to go out with her "friends," and she would go out most nights of the week, sometimes all night, only coming home to sleep it off. Sure - she has plenty of excuses about why she "had" to go out all the time, and why she "had" to cheat: but when it comes down to it, if she had issues with the relationship she should have brought them up and we could have worked on them, instead of creating new and worse issues.

One night in mid-January 2009 I decided I had to know the worst and I checked her emails, and I found out everything. The cheating, the months of lies and deception, and that she'd been smoking cannabis with her friends and driving home stoned and drunk. When I confronted her with the emails, she got mad at ME for "invading her privacy"! And instead of feeling any shame or or remorse and working things out, she decided it was over between us, and I moved out right away.

She has already started openly dating other guys -within just a few weeks of our separation. It's like she has no guilt, no shame, and doesn't care about anything that gets in the way of her having fun.

Am I right to feel so angry and upset? I feel betrayed, I feel like I want the world to know how badly she's treated me, and warn any other guys against having anything to do with her. She took me in completely, I loved her, I did the right thing and married her (SHE proposed to ME last year, on Feb 29th, Leap Day), and it turns out she was a liar and a cheat.