Texting and Phone Calls - This new technology of texting and cell phones has really sparked a new problem

by KW
(Arkansas)

Texting and Phone Calls - "This new technology of texting and cell phones has really sparked a new problem"


My husband has an 8:00 Am to 5:30 PM Job Monday thru Saturday. He is up every morning and out the door at 6:10 AM on the dot.

Immediately out the door he begins texting and making phone calls, mind you, the business does not open til 8:00AM.

I check the phone frequently online to see who he has been calling and texting due to finding strange numbers and such on the bill.

When I confront him, he has an answer for everything. We spend no time together like we used to and the texting and phone calls are non stop.

One morning at 5:54 AM he received a text stating "Morning". When I asked him who it was, he said it was a co worker being hateful by texting him that early.

When I arrived at work, I checked the online bill to see what number had texted his phone and wrote it down.

The co workers wife works with me at my job and I asked her what her husbands phone number was and told her the situation.

She asked me what the number was and I told her. Turns out, it was her mother in law who likes married men and has broken up several marriages in the past.

When I confronted him, he states it was her and he was confused that early in the morning and that he never responded to her text and that was the only time he has heard from her.

So I looked back on the phone bill and her number was there many many times and mostly in the early morning hours when he leaves the house at 6:10 AM.

Most of his female friends know just when to call. They always call and text when he is away from the house and he never receives a call in my presence unless it is his mother or brother.

I just feel that if you are married to someone, they should be committed to you and stop all this nonsense.

This new technology of texting and cell phones has really sparked a new problem for married couples.

I believe that the trust is now broken and my husband is a pathalogical liar and is not MAN enough to admit he is in the wrong.

How can one ever make a marriage work with this continuing to go on?

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Secrecy # 1 sign
by: Anonymous

locking his cellphone & Silent ringer, Is The First Clue, That He Is Obviously Using his phone, For Something That He Feels He Has A Reason To Hide, Therefore, Lock His Phone, SECURE HIS COMPUTER, & keep all evidence, Out Of Discovery status... What we Don't Know, Can't Hurt Us, Nor Cause Confrontation, That They Do NOT want To Face, Nor Try To Explain, Unless, It's Another Rehearsed LIE, Or Repeat Of A Prior Excuse, That Seemed To Work Before, In A CONFRONTATION SITUATION, When BUSTED, In The Act!!!

Smart Girl
by: Anonymous

You are so smart to realize that often times the man leaves clues, he can't help but mention something - It was my co-worker really meant it's my co-worker's mom!

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