The honest, faithful one
I have been with my husband for over 20 years on and off. We have officially been married for four.
He has had numerous affairs and I have caught him in every one. He has given me crabs one time and claimed he got it from the port-o-potty at work, like I am stupid.
Now he has been going out every night after work and drinking and I found a number on his cell phone investigated and found out that it was another woman.
I called her and talked to her and told her he was married, and asked her if they slept together. She said that he slept with her, but she didn't sleep with him.
Whether it was just the fact that she was some dumb bar whore who doesn't understand the difference or just a dumb ass period ( I believe the latter), she still helped to destroy my marriage.
Although I know the blame doesn't lie with her, because she was shocked when she called his cell phone while he was asleep and his wife answered the phone.
I know he works with a lot of woman and I know all of them and I don't mind if they call him because he is the boss on the job, but all of these woman are married and know me.
So, after being treated like shit for almost 20 years I have finally grew a set of balls and told him that we will still live as a family until our son graduates next year, but he better have a place to live by then because the day after our sons graduation party, he needs to go.
I am not playing the wife role anymore. He can do his own clothes, his own cooking, and his own everything because I am not going to be doing any of it anymore.
I have forgiven him over and over, but this time it is over. The really sad thing is I gave up a guy for a lot less than this who treated me like a queen and I never forgave him for one little white lie. It really sucks.
I cannot believe that after over 20 years together, he still does not know or realize that I know him better than he knows himself. What an asshole. I am done and so over this.
Well Thanks for listening to my vent. Although I am sure others problems are worse than mine, I needed a place to vent and maybe someone who would understand my feelings for a change.
It will be nice hearing that other people care more about my feelings than the man who is supposed to be the one to consider my feelings has no care about how or what he does to me mentally.