Why my wife left us for another man?

by Matt

Why my wife left us for another man?


Hi..

My story below and hope you can advise me..

This's very first time doing this and i've been searching Hi..

My story below and hope you can advise me..

This's very first time doing this and i've been searching answers why my wife left us for another man and hope to get advise from reader with experienced.

She was a single mother.. i gave her this and that... i've been working hard on my business to meet her demands and bills..etc. I got 3 kids from her (our marriage) my eldest son is not my biological son.

Right now i proceed the divorce and it take ages for the court hearing. I tried to save the marriage by giving her the chance and willing to forget the past and start a new one. She agreed but still seeing the guy, and doesn't come back home or back around dawn.

She doesn't take care of the kids and my in laws is defending her by keeping the kids. I managed to take my 2nd son with me.. its been almost 2 weeks already. Right now my in law is helping her to avoid my calls and seeing my kids. My in laws also denying her having affairs which i caught her... when i caught her..which is many times, she just smile as me with the looks (So what and now what?)

This's crazy and mental for me. btw. I'm 34 and she is 32. I still love her and gave her the chance to save the marriage and still she lie lie lie lie to me and eventually caught them at his house and went for clubbing by showing off they are couple.

By the i'm a Malaysian (Chinese) In malaysia law.. kids under 12yrs old always follow the mom side. Affair not really apply in court, the court will only look into caring and spending time with the kids. Obviously she doesn't come back home or back around 8 - 10am (more than 16 hours outside) the only proof and witness i have is the parents and our maid... which her parents defending her and wants my kids too.

I'm learning to move one with my son (Joshua) which i requested and i feel sad that i broke the marriage and my son bonding with his brother and sister.

Until now.. i don't see her regret by doing this with her affair and still denied that they are only just friend till now. I went to the guy house but he refused to see me.

For your info... 1st son is 11 (her own son), 2nd son 8, 3rd son 5 and daughter 4yrs old. (3 my own with her). married 8yrs and dating 2 yrs.

Its been going on 2 months already.. and i'm trying so hard to focus with my 3rd son. Also trying so hard to focus my business.

For past few weeks.. i've been followed her where abouts eventually this recent weeks i got tired and i look stupid of doing that. Right now i'm avoding her calls and i don't want to see her or talk to her.. she make me sick and disgrace to my kids of her action.

Do you think she'll regret and also leave this guys.. (my soon to be ex wife is very attractive) or karma?.

She keep lie lie lie lie... and she knows my weakness is the kids.

Please help and advise

Matt

and hope to get advise from reader with experienced.

She was a single mother.. i gave her this and that... i've been working hard on my business to meet her demands and bills..etc. I got 3 kids from her (our marriage) my eldest son is not my biological son.

Right now i proceed the divorce and it take ages for the court hearing. I tried to save the marriage by giving her the chance and willing to forget the past and start a new one. She agreed but still seeing the guy, and doesn't come back home or back around dawn.

She doesn't take care of the kids and my in laws is defending her by keeping the kids. I managed to take my 2nd son with me.. its been almost 2 weeks already. Right now my in law is helping her to avoid my calls and seeing my kids. My in laws also denying her having affairs which i caught her... when i caught her..which is many times, she just smile as me with the looks (So what and now what?)

This's crazy and mental for me. btw. I'm 34 and she is 32. I still love her and gave her the chance to save the marriage and still she lie lie lie lie to me and eventually caught them at his house and went for clubbing by showing off they are couple.

By the i'm a Malaysian (Chinese) In malaysia law.. kids under 12yrs old always follow the mom side. Affair not really apply in court, the court will only look into caring and spending time with the kids. Obviously she doesn't come back home or back around 8 - 10am (more than 16 hours outside) the only proof and witness i have is the parents and our maid... which her parents defending her and wants my kids too.

I'm learning to move one with my son (Joshua) which i requested and i feel sad that i broke the marriage and my son bonding with his brother and sister.

Until now.. i don't see her regret by doing this with her affair and still denied that they are only just friend till now. I went to the guy house but he refused to see me.

For your info... 1st son is 11 (her own son), 2nd son 8, 3rd son 5 and daughter 4yrs old. (3 my own with her). married 8yrs and dating 2 yrs.

Its been going on 2 months already.. and i'm trying so hard to focus with my 3rd son. Also trying so hard to focus my business.

For past few weeks.. i've been followed her where abouts eventually this recent weeks i got tired and i look stupid of doing that. Right now i'm avoding her calls and i don't want to see her or talk to her.. she make me sick and disgrace to my kids of her action.

Do you think she'll regret and also leave this guys.. (my soon to be ex wife is very attractive) or karma?.

She keep lie lie lie lie... and she knows my weakness is the kids.

Please help and advise

Matt