Wife Pushing Me ,to Another Lady..I Need Advice...

by Wm
(Mcbee,SC,USA)

My wife has had breast cancer, A friend (Sue) of ours husband had cancer also and has passed away, he was like a brother to me,that I never had.


He asked me to do a few things after his death for him,and his wife. I didnt know that we would be crying so much together,as friends.

I am wiping tears as I write this now.It is hard when my wife tells me that she knows that our friend (Sue) loves me,and she still says that Sue and I need some time alone.

It is as if she wants us to fall in love,I know that I have,and Sue says she loves me too,and when something happens to my wife, she would love to get married,we both have grown children.

I still dont want to hurt my wife,we have been together for 32 yrs. Just to let you know I caught my wife cheating on me years ago,in which I was the one that paid for that,I had to go to the doctor to get treatment for a infection.

All is ok now. In one way I feel bad for cheating on my wife,but then she is trying to put us together, I have been told that my wife loves me so much that she is looking out for me after her death.

In which only the lord knows when we are leaving this world.There is more to write but I need to go, thanks for giving me a place to talk.

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