Is Going to a Strip Club Considered Cheating? Please Help!
"My husband is frequenting strip clubs"
Is Going to a Strip Club Considered Cheating?
My husband is frequenting strip clubs and it is causing a big problem in our marriage that he doesn’t seem to recognize.
When I met my current husband, he would frequent strip clubs. We were very good friends before we really got together. He would tell me about his nights out with his boys at the strip club. As a friend, these stories were harmless to me. I always had my opinion on these types of places. Nothing positive could happen there. That was the way I thought then, and that is the way I think now.
Back then, as a friend I had no grounds to tell him what he could and couldn’t do so he went when he pleased and that was that.
To make a long story short, we started catching feelings for each other and he really fell hard for me. Our relationship got intense quickly and we became a steady item.
During this stage he pretty much stopped hanging with his friends like he use to. Because of this he didn’t go to strip clubs either. This went on for quite some time with it eventually leading to us getting married.
During the first year or so of our marriage everything was exceptional so the issue never came up about strip clubs. I really thought that phase of his life was over.
I was wrong! So wrong!
What was I suppose to do? While we were dating, he completely stopped going to the strip clubs and things seemed perfect. Why would I bring up issues that weren’t there?
Well here we are today. Married, and having issues about dam strip clubs!
My question to you is:
Is going to a strip club considered cheating?
My husband keeps insisting that is it harmless and that I didn’t have a problem with it before we got married. If it was a problem then why did I marry him?
I am so confused because I did know about him going to these places and I never expressed any kind of negative feelings then. Do I have the right to feel the way I do now, and how do I get past this?
I do not have any other major issues in our marriage right now. I would consider our sex life good and hopefully he would say the same.
Please, I am looking for some advice from someone that may have gone through something similar. Do I have anything positive to look forward to?
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