"Emotionally almost feels worse than physical"

by k

The first time I found out my husband had been talking to his long ago ex, for several months supposidly it was harmless in the begining then I found letter to one another confessing there love ex, ex.

She lives states away so I know the did not physically cheat, but emotionally almost feels worse than physical. The second time I found a comment by a girl he went to highschool with saying we can have sex in the back of your truck like you said, I will be going on my break at 12:00, then also found where he had solicited a lady on craigslist.

Supposidly he and neither of the girls did anything but made plans. Which one confirms. I am stuck, the first time it happened he swore it woyld never happen again, and it does but goes further.

I want to believe we can work things out but I am afraid I am being Nieve. A majority of the problem is his drinking. when he drinks he seems to do things and not rememeber.

I didn't want to make a rash emotional decision about it considering we have 3 kid so I told him I would give it a year.

He is trying, but due to his work he is gone alot and on trips,has a work phone email ex. That I do not have access to which makes me nervous, he swears he would tell me if anything happened again, but I am not stupid he didn't tell me first 2x's why again cause he know it will all end.

I need advice I don't know how to get through this, I have given up so much to support my husband and his dreams leaving all I know job, friends, family and now I am struggling.

Click here to post comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Signs of Cheating Spouse Forum.

Share this page:
Enjoy this page? Please share with others. Here's how...

Would you prefer to share this page with others by linking to it?

  1. Click on the HTML link code below.
  2. Copy and paste it, adding a note of your own, into your blog, a Web page, forums, a blog comment, your Facebook account, or anywhere that someone would find this page valuable.