I Cheated on My Girlfriend – Should I Tell Her?
by Really Confused Boyfriend
I cheated on my girlfriend..what should i do? Need Advice
I cheated on my girlfriend recently and need some advice. I was traveling on a business trip to a city where my ex-girlfriend lived. I have been together with my girlfriend for 6 years now.
We talk about getting married but have been sort of just stuck in the same level for some time now when it comes to our relationship.
Should I tell her, or just forget about it?
I am absolutely torn about what to do. I cheated on my girlfriend and have been thinking it through over the last few days trying to get a clear answer of what I should do.
So far I have come up with the below:
Pros in Telling Her I Cheated
I will feel better about myself, at least I owned up to my actions
My conscience would be clear
I could sleep easily a night
Cons in Telling Her I Cheated
We will probably break up.
If we stay together, she may never trust me again.
She will be absolutely devastated.
Even if she breaks up with me, I could potentially damage her for all her future relationships.
So far that is what I have come up with. I cheated on my girlfriend and I had no idea it would be this heavy on my conscience.
I know my action was clearly WRONG and I know if you could get past this time I would NEVER do it again!!
The pleasure was definitely not worth what I have at stake!
Is there anyone here that has kept such a secret inside that has gone on to a healthy and happy relationship with the same person they cheated on?
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