I'm not stupid
Ok so here's my story my husband and I have been married for 12 years and in the first year of our marrage I met his ex(high school)girlfriend as we were leaving she hands him a note that read leave your wife i love.
I wanted to rip her hair out and poke her eyes out but he did give me the letter(which was handed to him in front of me)fine we live about 400 miles from her.
Fast forward I found his email open in Aug,2009 and was surprised they are talking (in secret)he said no big deal we are friends and the ever so loving i wont do it again.
Fast forward now they 'er still talking(secretly)I found text and messages which she gave her phone number to him.
He did the right thing erased it and said I wont do it again well they talk on the phone(secret)as you can tell my husband isn't so bright I found the calls messages and whatever else he never deleted his trash so he got the number he called her at the casino without me he talks to her without me and when i told him its her or me he said i want you i will never call her again.
He lied and that statement has been said a dozen times its always been her over me and some of the text are questionable.
I went out of town I heard she came into my home he said no but i heard him tell a friend please say it was your friend that was here.
Ofcourse he say stuff like i never said thatheres some favorites i dont know how her number is on my phone.
You must have done it anyway her husband told me she was here and we chatted he was mad tore cable out of wall and said its not true they are saying this to cause problems and said hes done being her friend so far I have'nt seen any messages or anything else.
He was planning to divorce me and her marriage was ify. Now nothing ........what do think