Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and about 4 months ago I found out he was talking to his ex girlfriend who lives a million miles away for work and they were saying stuff like " i miss you, can't wait to see you".
I confronted him about it and he immediatly stopped talking to her and broke off all contact with her and said he made a stupid mistake and I am the one he wants to be with and bla bla bla....
then right after that, I found out he had been emailing girls off of a website ,b>trying to hook up with them.
He said he never actually met up with anyone or physically cheated. We worked through all of that because he tried so hard to work things out with me and earn my trust back..
But now 4 months later I am suspicious he is cheating on me again. He used to always come over to my parents place on his lunch breaks to see me and then all of a sudden it stopped cold turkey(he doesn`t even call anymore).
And then he moved in with me at my parents and he would make his lunches in the morning but he would always come home and he would still have his full lunch in his backpack.
I thought it was weird but I didn`t think anything of it because i thought maybe he bought his lunch sometimes and didn;t want me to get mad for spending money.
Now we moved out together into our own place and he brings lunches to work and actually eats them on his lunch. But we bought two cartons of eggs the other day and there are three eggs missing.
The problem...we havn`t cooked any eggs here! so he had to have taken them to work and cooked them at someones house on his lunch or something.
I asked him if he used those eggs and he said yes but he doesn`t remember what he used them for.
Now everything that I was suspicious of before, makes so much more sense now that he has taken food that needs to be cooked on a stove to work with him.
I am positive he didn`t fry eggs at work. He works on a construction site. If he is cheating, It could only be on his lunch breaks because we are together literally 24.7 except the 8 hrs a day when he is at work.
So the only time we arent together when he is not working is on his lunch breaks.`He doesn`t go anywhere without me and when I go out, he always comes.
He doesn`t do what the normal guy would do when he is cheating..like trying to get out of the house or ``work Late`` or anything to get away from me to go see the other girl.
Thats why I am having a very hard time figuring it out. I don;t have enough proof to confront him! plz help.
Am I just paranoid
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