My girlfriend seems to be losing interest in me - I Need Advice
My Girlfriend seems to be Losing Interest in Me and Our Relationship!
I have been together with my girlfriend for the last 3 years. We always use to tell each other that we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. I am 26 years old and she is 31.
Despite our 5 year difference in age, we have so much in common. We laugh at the same things; we have very similar passions in life. Quietly I considered our relationship the “perfect relationship”
I have so many friends that hate hanging out with their girlfriends. Me on the other hand, I enjoy spending every minute with her. She has always felt the same, and neither one of us ever really needed to ask for the others attention because it was always there.
Our sex life was awesome! I thought so, and she would always say the same.
For some reason I always had a hidden fear that I would lose her one way or another. I just felt that I was too lucky to not have all the problems that I saw my other friends having with their girlfriends.
Somewhere along the way over the past few weeks, my girlfriend seems to be losing interest in me and in our relationship. I don’t know what to think. All the great things that I spoke about above seem to be dwindling away. I feel our relationship slipping away and I can’t do anything about it.
I can’t help but to think that she has met someone else, maybe someone more her age. My mind has been playing games with me. If I call her and she doesn’t answer, an immediate thought comes to my mind that she is with someone else and she is just ignoring my call when she sees me calling.
In all that I know about her, she doesn’t seem to be the type of person to cheat. I believe she would break up with me before that ever happened. I am concerned that I may just be in that “no man’s land” before she gets the nerve to tell me.
I consider myself a very level headed and rational person. Even though I am going crazy inside, I am making sure that I am not displaying signs of the panic that I am feeling inside. I will subtly ask her questions like, “Is something bothering you? You seem distant.” I am not getting any answers that satisfy my intuitions.
My girlfriend seems to be losing interest in me and our relationship and I am looking for any advice from anyone that may have been through anything similar to what I am going through.
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