My girlfriend still has the Tinder app on her phone
(Palm Beach, FL)
My girlfriend and I have been dating now for about 4 months. Last night when she went to show me a video on FB I quickly glanced the Tinder app on her phone.
I knew she had the app when we go together, but I just figured that four months into our relationship she would have deleted it by now. We both are clear that we are together exclusively.
I can't say if she just forgot about the app, but it is on her phone's home screen. I am also judging based on what I would do and what I did. I took the time to clean up loose ends by deleting and blocking people that could potentially cause problems in my relationship. I also deleted several apps that could be seen as shady.
I don't want to sound like I don't trust her, but I am not sure how to approach it. I also feel as if I make her delete it, it wouldn't be because she wanted to. I always felt in life, you should let people make their own decisions and then see what they decide. However, I also don't want to keep my mouth if it could potentially save me a heart break in the future.
Besides seeing the Tinder app on her phone, our relationship has been going well. I can't complain about anything in general other that the usual disagreements and they aren't ever about anything serious.
We both are pretty easy going people and I do feel that we do respect each other. Should I casually bring it up without asking her to remove it to see what she says and how she responds?
I also don't want to feel like I am scared to speak my mind. What would you do?