I started dating a guy under the info he was in divorce steps. After 6 months, he hadn't moved from home they owned together. I ask questions & he says he pd down payment to start divorce but was advices on several issues to take care of b4 moving forward. Farm land involved. So he ask me to wait another 6-12 months. I agreed I fell in love by this point. In 12 months I started noticing things bout the way farm business ran. Ask him questions & found out wife had worked at farm bank/family accts bank for over 25 yrs. she had control all those yrs on their money. Anyway w/new farm loan needing signed, he tried to get new credit at new banks but was denied unless wife signed w/him. Mo law. So now it's time renew loan again & he says this yr will get him caught up on the earlier bad farm yrs & won't have to have her anymore after this. Now she found out about me thanksgiving 2010 & has gave him hard time. Froze his credit cards, refused sign farm Cks, etc. but starting jan 2011 she started taking yearly golf trip he has taken 25 yrs & never went b4. Then did several small wk end trips this yr. plus making him come home at 430-5 everyday when she gets off. I know this is crazy. But he signs this new loan in couple wks & begs me not to post on Facebook or have friends contact her to tell truth because she will take his farm. Part of which has been in family for 5 generations. Help???? P. s. I am blocked from her cell ph & home ph. I think she has been lead to believe I am stalking her & trying to convince public of affair w/husband.
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