Is Your Girlfriend Acting Distant? Girlfriend Giving You The Cold Shoulder?

Is your girlfriend acting distant and cold? If you've been with someone for a while, you will know when you are getting the proverbial "cold shoulder". One of the prominent signs that your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you is when they seem to withdraw from the relationship unexplainably.

For many women, the guilt of an affair is too much for them to face up to so they run away rather than face up to say that the relationship isn't working. This MAY be the reason your girlfriend acting distant.

So if you are faced in this situation, you need to pay attention to your relationship to see if there are other signs that she is cheating on you. If she is having an affair, there almost certainly will be other signs and clues that she will leave behind.

These signs are so consistent, that it is almost as if the cheating wife or girlfriend wants to get caught cheating so that it will be out in the open, so maybe then the guilt of the adulterous affair will come to an end.

If your girlfriend is acting distant, please do not convict her at the first signs because people do react differently when confronted with stressful problems or situations in their life.

If you are feeling that distance between you and your girlfriend and you are reading this, you are involved in a relationship that you care about. That feeling is telling you that there is something wrong with your girlfriend and or your relationship, so don’t ignore them, act on them.

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Girlfriend Acting Distant Tips

  • Is your girlfriend cheating because she is being distant? You will need to determine if her actions are so because of "outside" stress full situations or because she is silently confessing to her cheating ways.

  • Open conversation by sharing and bringing up YOUR feelings. Do not confront her in such a way that she will snap and act defensive as if attacked. There will be a point that she owes you to come clean and tell you why her actions are so, but you haven't reached there yet, so convey that YOU miss her not that she has distanced herself from you. You see there is a difference in how you say it, even though you are essentially saying the same thing.

  • Make her feel comfortable throughout these difficult times. It may seem hard, but for your sake and the sake of your relationship you would like her to feel comfortable enough to open up and share what is going on in her life. It may be something that you can help her through eventually, or unfortunately it may be that she is no longer in love with you. That may be difficult to hear, but someday you will respect that she was able to trust you enough to tell you rather than just concealing it and using other reasons without ever telling you the truth.

  • Listen and trust your feelings. You already know that there is something wrong in your relationship right now. Is she telling you that she has found someone else? You instincts are stronger and more acute than you think but you need to trust them more, and by doing so you will "hear" what she is silently telling.

  • Remember this is a RELATIONSHIP. Which means at some point she will have to RELATE to you, otherwise you are heading up a one way street with a dead end ahead. So be patient, but not foolish. If you are with someone that loves you and is considerate about your feelings, they will come around to share what it is that is making her act distant towards you.

"I feel as if I lost my girlfriend
even though we are still together physically" - Dale from California

If you follow these Girlfriend Acting Distant tips you should be able to get clearer picture and understanding on what is going on in your relationship.

Remember, be sure to pay attention to other signs of a cheating girlfriend to make the picture that much CLEARER!

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